S3 E22: It's Not That Deep

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Welcome to Jerking Around, a podcast that makes you feel better about yourself, because we're a mess just like you, and Crystal makes fun of me the whole time and it's great and it's real Welcome.

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Welcome To Jerking Around.

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Speaking of a jerk, tisha might be a little jerky today, like legitimate, I think I'm tired.

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I said that last week, though.

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I said that about you last week and you acted so good, yeah, I feel like you just say it every week, but that's fine.

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Well, I'm trying to make you laugh and know you're acting quiet.

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Let's figure out what's going on?

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Yeah, I think I'm tired.

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I have a slight headache, you know slight, maybe massive.

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I asked I'm not gonna say what I said in the car because that's naughty.

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No, but we're having a day where I was like, hey, after the podcast, you want to go like till brunch and get a drink, which I never, ever want to do that.

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You never drink in the day it's ever, or like hardly that's what I mean.

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Even a dinner, you'll have like a half yeah for you to want to have a drink in the day.

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You know, when you feel like you're just tired, yeah Of everybody, yeah, yeah, I'm in that.

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I think it's just like you did all the things, like it's been a really crazy last couple of weeks, like not bad, crazy, enjoyable crazy, not like stress, is Not that just like night night, like my brain is tired.

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So I want to go.

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You just want to kind of decompress.

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I want to be like 20.

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Yeah, you know, and like put pantyhose on her head and stuff, and I feel like this weather always makes me want to like day drink when it's warming up.

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Really.

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Yeah, I saw this thing and it's like it's margarita by the pool.

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Weather I'm like it's totally the spring makes me really want to like drink by the pool and I'm not even a big drinker either.

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But like margaritas by the pool and laying out like not a care in the world.

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Yeah, I want not a care in the world.

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That's what I'm looking for.

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Like I'm 20 laying out, that's what I want, but I have way more stretch marks now.

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Yeah, I want that feeling.

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Yeah, yeah.

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So yeah, I'm feeling that I think I would have agreed.

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I just have a headache, so maybe I'll get some Advil.

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I don't feel like I'm at no.

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I feel like I could still make something happen Today.

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Yeah, I'm not giving up.

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I know I was like oh, it wasn't like a hard, no, no.

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Like, if I ask for Chino, I think you'll say hard no, yeah, we're going to get some Tylenol and then we're going to or she hates Tylenol.

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I won't have Tylenol.

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She hates.

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Tylenol.

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And now I'm saying no Tylenol.

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They're like why I'm like.

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Tisha said you don't know why, I don't even know why anymore.

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I just Tisha said no Tylenol.

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The kids are like no Tylenol.

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And.

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I'm like.

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But moving on, remember the day you went to the hospital, jumped out of the car?

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We're not even telling that.

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I think we've told that story.

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Actually I feel like we have.

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Yeah, I got broken up with.

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so then we all met at the bar and took shots, Because that's an appropriate way to deal with a breakup.

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Yeah.

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Not, it doesn't make you feel better.

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And we had Jen with us right, yeah, what good friends we are, you know, yeah, they met me at the bar and I was crying.

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It's where Arrowhead Grill is now.

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I know it used to be something else.

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It was a Mexican place Mexican, yeah, we were taking shots.

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It was horrid.

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Which is like I don't even take shots.

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And then your boyfriend really mind it, except sometimes he's like, hey, no flashing, like if we're around like new people, and he's like like, if we're around my normal best friends that have seen it a hundred times, he's like he doesn't care.

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But then when it's like around new people, he's like, hey, like no flashing tonight, you know, and I'm like, I'm like you know, like you're so controlling.

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No, I'm just kidding.

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But no, I did have a controlling, I'm just kidding.

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I did have a controlling boyfriend.

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He was controlling, it was the bangs guy yeah, bangs, and she tried to be Latino.

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And in the parking lot he like came to pick me up because I couldn't drive and I flashed him and he got so mad.

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So then he's like get, get in the car.

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So I get in the car and I'm like yelling, and then we like stop at a stoplight and we're fighting.

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So I jump out of the car and I'm running across the like main road, bell road or union hills.

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That's a healthy relationship it was awful.

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And then what?

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keep going and then we went back to his house and I fell asleep.

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And then I woke up hours later with the world's worst headache because I'd had so many shots.

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And then I was like I have a brain tumor and it was like it was excruciating, like now that I'm looking I'm like, duh, you were like hungover, it was like from alcohol, so then what?

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Happened like why didn't he say that?

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And like I'm sure he did, I don't know.

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He drove me to the hospital well, you probably made him puking in the waiting room and I was like, and then I was puking in the waiting room and I was like the pain, no, I was puking because of the alcohol and he's like it smells like tequila.

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And I was like, and then they like did my brain scan and they were like, yeah, no tumor, but you need an IV.

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It was the loser, it was so loser, mad at you.

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Oh, my big trouble.

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Yeah, all because you went through, all because I went through a breakup.

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But that's real friendship if your friends aren't meeting you at the bar, no, and going to the hospital for you.

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You know, I mean, it deserves some sort of award.

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Yeah, it's breakups are hard.

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I also think, though after a breakup, I feel like you become the like, a better version of yourself.

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You're like in fight mode, yeah like you get like I'm new and refreshed yeah, I'm working out.

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I'm like a better version of yourself.

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You're like in fight mode yeah, like you get.

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Like I'm new and refreshed, yeah, I'm working out.

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I'm eating good, yeah, and I'm like read.

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I would read me, oh, yeah.

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In high school.

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I read anyways, yeah.

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Not like the books I was reading.

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Yeah, yeah, like self-help yeah.

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I was like getting better myself and I remember in high school I had a boyfriend eighth grade, ninth grade, 10th grade and half of 11th grade all one boyfriend and when we broke up it was so hard to go to sleep.

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That was my first dabble in Tylenol PM.

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Yeah, because I couldn't go to sleep without talking to him at night, because it was a habit.

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Yeah, and like that's when you used to talk on the phone for hours.

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So I remember which is pretty smart for that young age to be I was like make myself not talk to anyone because I have, like guy friends I was gonna talk to in place of.

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You know how you have the in place of yeah, and I was like, no, I need to learn to go to sleep by myself.

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Yeah, and like so, like three weeks were hard and then it got better and then I think I started dating someone.

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It's always like right, when you get it figured out, somebody else comes in the way probably because, like you're confident and but in college.

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I kept trying to get it figured out and I didn't.

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Yeah, and it was no one good.

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No one good was a suitor, no, but like in high school, it was just oh, there was another one.

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Yeah, we were talking to someone about breakups recently and I feel like she was doing so good.

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I'm like our kids nowadays better than we were.

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Yeah, because I feel like I was very weak, like it was go back a million times like, like idiot.

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You know she's doing amazing.

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And nowadays I'm like she's a jerky as well.

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Yeah, you know who you are.

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You're handling it so good.

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Yeah, and she's like strong.

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So strong.

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I'm like I was not that strong in my 20s.

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She did text me last night.

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That's funny.

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You're saying I was going, what they like broke up, she's just not talking.

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I'm like, wait, what I was like crying at the door like, ah, you know, like against the window, no, I would cry bawling.

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Please come over.

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Yeah, I'll do anything you want, just come over.

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Oh, shoot, just kidding, yeah, but kind of Like I was, so I was a Christian and it wasn't very cool.

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That sounds dumb.

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I'm not saying Christian's trending, but maybe it's like a very much more acceptable thing.

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Like everybody always talks about how bad this generation is and I actually feel like the opposite.

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I think kids are way better than they used to be in certain aspects.

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Like I had my first kiss super young, like seventh grade, and now, like my daughter and her friends, a lot of them haven't kissed anyone and they're almost done with their freshman year and I was like everyone acts like they're so bad.

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I don't think they're that bad.

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Maybe it's my kids, I don't know, not my kids, but like who we're around right now, maybe they're being better, but you know, hudson's in seventh grade, not many people are kissing.

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They go to church.

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They're wanting to do All their friends are at church.

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They talk about God, they post about God.

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I was strong in my faith, but not like this.

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I was not.

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It's cool for Maddie, my oldest.

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She goes to church with all their friends.

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Sunday night is like hangout night.

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You might have a bad weekend, but Sunday night you're going to church, you're seeing everyone at church, they're going to McDonald's and Sonic and all the things.

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It's fun, yeah.

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I do think the generation seems like good.

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I mean sure there's.

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Yeah, and there's social media in this.

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Yeah, but like, thank God there wasn't social media.

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My God, this one guy Flags have to see you and he wasn't answering the phone.

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So then Jen and I decided to still keep going.

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He wanted to see me.

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He didn't know, he wanted to see me, but he wanted to see me, yeah.

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So then I see him out at the bar because there's like three bars in Flag and like I saw him there, did he ignore you?

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He talked to me a little bit I wouldn't say it's a lot, but was like, oh, he's being shy, you know, like he's scared.

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No one's scared.

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Your friends bullcrap you with this stuff and then I know he is scared.

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Yeah, they buy right in.

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I heard it happening this weekend.

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I was talking to a bunch of our girls came over.

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I feel like I've told people this recently that they're just scared and I'm like maybe they're not scared wait a minute.

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You fell into it again yeah, like I feel like I'm believing the scared.

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I believe this scared.

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Recently I've believed all kinds of things.

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Yeah, you know I'm talking about, right, no, yeah, I'm like holy.

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I'm like having an epiphany right now.

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I can tell by your camera like what's going on?

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yeah, they're not scared they're not.

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If they wanted to, they would.

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I keep telling my daughters that if they wanted to, they would.

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There's no, what if it's a?

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girl, a girl scared.

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Does a girl get scared?

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No, a girl gets scared.

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Take me now.

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Are you kidding what girl gets scared?

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They don't get scared, they're into it.

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Yeah, wow, yeah, they're not scared it's not the one I've been giving really wrong advice to who I'm.

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Do you want me to say it?

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yeah, oh, yeah, yeah, no, I'm having an epiphany.

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Yeah, no, I agree, shoot, I agree.

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That's why, yeah, my advice is lean the other way.

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Yeah, I do think I did say that finally, but yeah, shoot.

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Yeah, it's enough now.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, if they wanted to, they would both sides, yeah, and I feel like I'm really genuinely, genuinely a good advice giver.

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But maybe I'm like whoa, no, I think you're right and I think on that one we're right.

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But I remember we there was a sex in the city episode which if sex in the city wasn't around, I wouldn't have made it through college like so good, it was so good.

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There's not a lot of shows with like advice for these kids there should be one.

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That was the best advice.

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Maybe we should start acting more in our podcast for these kids you know, with the, I feel like I'm trying to do that.

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Yeah, no yeah, I'm home, next time at my computer, you know, maybe it made me stop your soulmate is just your.

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Yeah, right.

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And I was like I couldn't help but wonder.

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Yeah, you know, she always said that.

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Yeah, she did, I love it.

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I was like I couldn't help but wonder too, carrie, you know I couldn't help but wonder why he's, you know, know, letting that girl give him a blowjob and not me, and not talking to me.

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Yeah, I couldn't, I can't breathe, it's the same.

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Yeah, remember, I couldn't help but wonder.

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It's like, you know, I'm like back in it.

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Yeah, and I was believing everything she said.

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We should have named our podcast.

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I.

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Couldn't Help but Wonder, yeah, yeah, season four, yes, might be.

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Couldn't help but wonder.

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I'm crying, but like it helped me through so much.

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The one where Carrie oh my gosh, and her hair and I was like I have curly hair like Carrie, you know.

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Yeah, you did do that, yeah, and I feel like I am Carrie.

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We all want to be Carrie.

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But when she was like maybe I just need to wait for someone, and she goes up to the horse At the end, it's like my favorite episode and she's like maybe I just need to wait.

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Oh, like she's a wild horse.

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Yes, yeah, for someone that doesn't want to tame me, that's wild enough to run with me.

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Yeah, and I feel like Kyle guy I ever dated.

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I had to change myself, mostly to make them better, cause I had to be like make them more responsible or make them make better choices.

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And Ben's the first guy I met.

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I didn't have to change him at all, right, I just.

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And then I could be more myself because I didn't have to work so hard at making him better.

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Yeah, you know totally.

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I feel like that's a good thing, like you don't change.

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I tell the young girls that cause.

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All of them are making excuses, cause I, I, you know, I coach, I say this a lot.

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And then Maddie has friends, so they were over this weekend and Kyle and I were like Carrie.

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I couldn't help but wonder we were telling him a lot of advice.

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Yeah, um, and there's this.

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I've we've talked about this before the talking stage.

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The talking stage drives me nuts because you're doing nothing.

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So, like some girls have been talking for a year.

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If you're talking for a year, that's horrible.

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It's just a way for the guy to get what he wants with no commitment.

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Yeah, and it's wrong Well he gets.

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keeps you from liking anyone else, Right.

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Keeps you from dating.

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That's what I'm saying he's getting all the benefits he doesn't always get the sex he he's getting, the better.

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I don't think they do all the sex totally, but he's getting the benefits of having that person there and but there's no commitment level exactly, and that's, I feel like, the problem with the society and the online dating.

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It's like it's taken out the commitment of what relationships should have.

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They should have commitments.

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Yeah, even you're talking, like when you're dating someone, there is a commitment level.

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Yeah.

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So it's like, oh, we can't have it.

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Be dating, we need to go a step less so that I can talk to other people too.

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Do whatever the heck I want.

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What are you talking about?

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anyways, I'm going to make sure my boys are never doing that.

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Yeah, the talking.

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No, we're not talking.

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Yeah, would you know if they're talking?

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Like, how do you If it's not like fully committed?

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Would we even know if they're talking If they didn't tell us?

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Hey?

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I'm talking to Shirley?

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Yeah, well, I would, because I have.

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Well, I, you know, we look at things, yeah, but I feel like if one of my boys was talking to someone, what if they're?

00:14:04.956 --> 00:14:06.019
talking to like three people on Snapchat.

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How would you know?

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Yeah, that's what I mean.

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Yeah, Like.

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If you don't know, they've made the talking official.

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Is the talking official?

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I don't know, I think some boys are talking to about 12 girls right now and the girls don't know it.

00:14:18.070 --> 00:14:18.816
Yeah, I feel like we know that.

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Yeah, it's sad, but anyways, carrie, that's another thing.

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Snapchat.

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It's like why do you need to have something where no one can see?

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It's weird, I know Well we know why you had it.

00:14:26.753 --> 00:14:27.894
Yeah Well, we know.

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Oh my gosh you guys.

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Side note, I watched a few documentaries on Sunday.

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I was real tired from the weekend, so in her bed.

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Didn't we talk about this?

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No, I don't want to talk about it.

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No, I want to tell it because we're always telling horrible stories about me.

00:14:42.268 --> 00:14:48.302
Like my husband takes his hand out of my shirt, like all the horrible things I do, like I have shovies, like.

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No, it's so rude.

00:14:49.686 --> 00:14:52.376
Yeah, let's talk about you Exactly.

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No, so funny, wait time out.

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My friend's husband texted me because we were going to go on a hike and he had to skip the gym because we wanted to hike in the morning.

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And he said tell her to do his shovies, like.

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And she was like wait a minute, does he watch the podcast like secretly?

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she didn't know well, she had told him about shovies, but we were laughing because it's like guys do want a shovie, everybody.

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You know, I don't but they do.

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Have you still been shoving, yeah, or did you switch it up?

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no, you're still shoving yeah, shove, shoveroo, you know, like chim chim tree I don't know if melissa knows what the chevy is.

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I don't know.

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The first edit of the chevy was the funniest thing we should release that at some point, but wait so chevys is in the in there no oh yeah guidees.

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We decided it should be called guidees, but I feel like chubbies horrible I.

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I can't believe we're back to chubby, I know so anyways um, we're not the is, we're not making that a clip, so wait um.

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So I like to lay in my bed.

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No, during the day it's so weird.

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If I have a 15 minute window of a break between things, I go in my bed.

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She doesn't sit on the couch, you know when you go home.

00:16:04.379 --> 00:16:06.493
Thank you, you lay in your bed.

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Yes, that's like I only lay in my bed if I'm sick or I'm going to bed.

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Yes, yes, thank you, because, if I In the middle of the day.

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Yes.

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Like do you shower?

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Do you change out of your regular clothes?

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She wears her Everyone's whacked about their bed and the germs.

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You didn't wash your hands for years or brush your teeth, and now you're a mis-germ.

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I like a clean.

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I don't like dirty things in my bed.

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I like it very clean.

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I like my pillow clean out of the shower, you know.

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Yeah, it's not that deep at my house it's like it's not a big deal, but it's so funny because Kyle gets so mad about it.

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Oh, he's so mad when I'm in the bed.

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But what happens is, if I go sit on the couch, I look around at all the things I need to do Okay, I can do dishes, I could do laundry Whereas when you sit on the couch, you don't worry about those things.

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I don't so.

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So that's why Kyle doesn't worry about those things.

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Yeah, they're getting done.

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But for me it's like in your bed is a break when the kids know if I'm in my break, so I'll have a break.

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Before cheer practice.

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I'm in my bed.

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That means this is a downtime for me.

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Don't ask me for something.

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I'm in my bed, yeah, but then last night I had this thing.

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Or the other night I was like, you know, I'm so sick of the kids going to their room and I'm like, well, it's because I do.

00:17:12.720 --> 00:17:14.965
Yeah, so I gotta get out of there, you know?

00:17:14.965 --> 00:17:16.516
So I well do they do the same thing.

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They go in their room.

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Yeah, in their bed.

00:17:18.018 --> 00:17:18.818
Yeah, everybody goes to their bed.

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Yeah, everybody goes to their bed.

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The bed is so.

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I can't even imagine being in my bed in the middle of the day if I wasn't sick, Like I truly cannot.

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Yeah, it's crazy.

00:17:27.369 --> 00:17:27.630
Kyle too.

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He doesn't go in the bed and it's like it's bright in there.

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Well, no, it's not yeah, but like in my bed, Cool I just can't picture it and, like when I'm laying down, I'm not that comfortable.

00:17:40.300 --> 00:17:47.906
It's like See my I like don't feel rested unless I lay down Like if I'm sitting it's like my feet still hurt Really.

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But my feet hang a lot like this.

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Yeah, so like the blood's rushing down to my feet, so like the feet up, I gotta get my feet up.

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Yes, that's exactly what it is, and like it's weird, since bed rest and stuff yeah, like I couldn't put be sitting, yeah, so I honestly think that's where it started.

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I was on bed rest twice, like I had to lay down all the time, yeah, so like I'm not, like right now I can't wait to get my feet like level so that the blood's not rushing so interesting.

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So I learned when I get my coffee in the morning, sometimes I take it to the bed Stop.

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Sometimes I take it to the bed Stop.

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How do you even set it or drink it?

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I set mine right here, I put pillows and I sit up how do you?

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And I'm in my bed drinking the coffee that's Ben.

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I didn't want to tell you.

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I was like I'm not even telling her.

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I'm drinking my coffee in the bed.

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I think I've brought like food into the bed one time and Ben almost like lost his mind he's.

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And it wasn't like it was chips, you know.

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It was like I think it was like a bar, yeah, and I was like I'm having the bar in the bed.

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It was like at night and I was still hungry, yeah, and he couldn't get over it.

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He was like what is going on?

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Yeah, that's crazy.

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Yeah, I had my coffee in my bed.

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Thank you, melissa.

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I wonder how many people go in the bed similar personalities where we're on, on, on, on, go, go, go.

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I got to like tap out.

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That's like my tap out, yeah, and like like Sunday, that means I'm really tired.

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If I'm in the bed during the day with the blinds closed, that means I'm not doing anything for you guys.

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No, everyone's like are you sick If I'm in the bed?

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Yeah, really.

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And I am sick.

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Yeah, I can't believe it, I can't imagine.

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I don't think I'm that relaxed in my bed though it's not that really like at night when we're watching our show, but like during the day it's just not comfortable.

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I'd have to put pajamas on.

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It would be like a whole transition, you know, yeah.

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It's not that deep in my house.

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Yeah, a friend of mine taught me it's not that deep, but like, and I can't get over it.

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I feel like the friend uses it in the correct context.

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I feel like you just use it anytime.

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It is not that deep, I'm all oh, the, the light's green, she's all.

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it's not that deep.

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Like right now, I just use it right, like the bed.

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It's not that analytical.

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At my house, we don't have to put pajamas on before we go in the bed.

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Yeah, and I'm still a clean person.

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You just have these weird rules at your house that you would go in the bed when we lived together.

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Yeah, I would, totally.

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Yeah, that made me.

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He's like too clean.

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Yes, it's like they're made up.

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You're sitting on the cover.

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It's not like I'm rubbing my face against where I was sitting during the day.

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Yeah, I don't go in the bed.

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Oh, like he sometimes won't even go under the covers if he like has a headache and he's maybe not like showered.

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Yeah, I'm on top of my covers.

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I'm not in the bed.

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I'm not in my sheets On top of the bed.

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I'm top of the bed with like a throw blanket Interesting.

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I'm not in my covers.

00:20:32.315 --> 00:20:34.295
Ben does that sometimes when he has a headache Unless.

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I am like clean, I get that part, yeah, but to lay on the bed I'm not rubbing my face on where I laid yeah, like it's in the bed is one thing, yeah, but I'm on my bed with a blanket.

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Yeah, I'm not in the covers unless I'm changed in pajamas.

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That's true, yeah, but like it's not that deep, Like I'm not analyzing if there's a germ on my bed, like on my top of my bed.

00:20:53.372 --> 00:20:57.339
Yeah, that was the perfect.

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I was setting up for Sadie Hawkins and I Tisha helped me do like the table and I wanted a black.

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We wanted a white plate with a black napkin right, and I was so bugged that it was a white napkin and a fork and all white, all white.

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And I was like this is so annoying and my cousin was over and she was helping me set up and she's like Crystal, it's on the deep, yeah, and I like couldn't get over it.

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I was like you're so right, like it really isn't that deep, like no one cares, yeah, so I'm using it all the time, like the other day she was like I didn't mean to email you.

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I'm like, oh no, it's not that deep, I didn't think twice about it.

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Like it just is the perfect phrase.

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Yeah, I can't get over it.

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It's really.

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Sometimes it is that deep, like something is more analyzed, but this it's not that deep and I do feel like you're an analyzer.

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I am, it takes it away it's a good thing for you.

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I feel like most things to me aren't that deep, like I'm not over analyzing, so I analyze everything.

00:21:51.252 --> 00:21:58.498
So when someone tells me it's not that deep, I'm like you're right, okay, yeah, and let them Kyle, we started reading let them yeah, I, you know with you buy a book.

00:21:58.498 --> 00:21:59.941
You can share it with your family for free.

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Oh, I didn't know that.

00:22:00.461 --> 00:22:01.103
Did you know that?

00:22:01.103 --> 00:22:08.618
Yeah, so like all the books I buy are Audible, I'm not sharing the books I buy Ben will be like freak, yeah, but he's actually.

00:22:08.699 --> 00:22:10.022
He doesn't like a lot of my other books.

00:22:10.022 --> 00:22:11.226
He loves this one, yeah.

00:22:11.226 --> 00:22:23.318
So Kyle keeps saying let them have you read it yet feel like I am, it's kind of like awkward, like the girl's bleeding out.

00:22:23.338 --> 00:22:23.519
Let them.

00:22:23.519 --> 00:22:25.345
Yeah, because you're always like, I'm concerned.

00:22:25.345 --> 00:22:27.088
Yeah, you're always like should I insert?

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Myself.

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Yes, I want to insert a lot and I'm like no, let them.

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I am a let them.

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I would say with my kids I'm not a let them, but the rest of the world, I'm a let them and I'm like kind of the opposite.

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I am a let them with my kids, but with the world I'm not.

00:22:37.402 --> 00:22:38.304
I'm very let them with my kids.

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Yeah, but with the world I'm not.

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I'm very let them with my kids.

00:22:40.428 --> 00:22:42.932
Yeah, yeah, weird, that is funny.

00:22:42.932 --> 00:22:45.057
Huh, I need to be more.

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Let them with Kyle.

00:22:45.862 --> 00:22:47.681
Yeah, kyle is so funny when he listens.

00:22:47.681 --> 00:22:49.909
I got ripped on the podcast again.

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He's so funny, I'm not ripping you, no, but we talked about being a girlfriend last week.

00:22:54.803 --> 00:22:55.585
Did he like that one?

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He just listened to Trisha's and loved it.

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Okay, so he's like a week behind.

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Loved it.

00:23:00.411 --> 00:23:03.163
I've gotten a few more people reach out to me about Trisha's this week.

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They got caught up and he loved that one, but I was more of a girlfriend.

00:23:09.480 --> 00:23:17.184
But I'm learning that I don't let him as much Like I let everyone, but I want to like control him.

00:23:17.184 --> 00:23:18.661
Yeah, I'm the controlling one.

00:23:18.775 --> 00:23:19.817
Ben is not a let them.

00:23:19.978 --> 00:23:20.479
Yeah, he's a.

00:23:20.499 --> 00:23:22.865
Mm-hmm and I'm like, oh my God.

00:23:23.446 --> 00:23:27.421
Yeah, kyle's controlling though, too, so it's like that's probably our problem.

00:23:27.421 --> 00:23:29.941
Maybe we're both like controlling Too much.

00:23:29.941 --> 00:23:33.150
Yeah, mm-hmm, because he's like remember the Easter basket.

00:23:33.150 --> 00:23:35.280
Yeah, you need to order the kids something.

00:23:47.095 --> 00:23:47.696
It then just order it yourself.

00:23:47.696 --> 00:23:48.199
Don't tell me what to do.

00:23:48.199 --> 00:23:49.021
Yeah, I don't like being told what to do.

00:23:49.021 --> 00:23:49.563
The kids is the only thing.

00:23:49.563 --> 00:23:49.944
I'm not a let them.

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If it pertains to the kids, I'm like Ben.

00:23:50.788 --> 00:23:51.148
But anything else.

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I'm very left.

00:23:51.430 --> 00:23:51.991
I'm like, whatever you know.

00:23:51.991 --> 00:23:52.875
Yeah, that's interesting, I know I wonder why.

00:23:52.875 --> 00:23:57.605
Okay, so Tisha got me into speaking of date nights, got me into Tulsa King.

00:23:57.605 --> 00:23:58.586
Have you seen it yet?

00:23:58.586 --> 00:24:00.098
So it is so good.

00:24:00.098 --> 00:24:02.006
I feel like it's such an underrated show.

00:24:02.006 --> 00:24:06.809
I know, Because like the word Tulsa it's like man titles are so important though.

00:24:07.271 --> 00:24:19.184
Titles are important, we just talked about this because we just all of a sudden, are caring about our podcast titles so we're like titles are so important, Like I skimmed through podcasts to pick a title and the title of Tulsa King didn't.

00:24:19.184 --> 00:24:23.036
I was like't care about Tulsa, no and I, if it was like New York City King.

00:24:23.155 --> 00:24:23.817
I'd be like yes.

00:24:23.817 --> 00:24:26.663
Or like mobster king, oh yeah.

00:24:26.663 --> 00:24:31.153
Or like big daddy, yeah, you're all big wait.

00:24:31.153 --> 00:24:36.425
Remember when we were naming the podcast and we had that one raunchy name.

00:24:36.425 --> 00:24:38.838
I can't never mind raunchy oh nothing.

00:24:39.119 --> 00:24:41.425
I'm we almost called it dirty, was it?

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I'm so full I can't breathe.

00:24:43.471 --> 00:24:45.700
Yeah, that was almost a name, because that's like a saying we use.

00:24:45.700 --> 00:24:46.623
I still like that.

00:24:46.623 --> 00:24:48.161
If we ever write a book, we're naming it that.

00:24:48.321 --> 00:24:51.042
Yeah, because you know when you eat too much you are so full you can't breathe.

00:24:51.183 --> 00:24:58.962
Yeah, and that's like us.

00:24:58.962 --> 00:25:01.546
Yeah, one more drink or something drinking around?

00:25:01.866 --> 00:25:02.626
Yeah, and we don't even drink.

00:25:02.626 --> 00:25:03.188
Pour me a drink.

00:25:03.188 --> 00:25:04.308
Yeah, we don't drink.

00:25:04.348 --> 00:25:05.590
So we were like that's weird, it's dumb.

00:25:05.590 --> 00:25:10.952
Yeah, I'm going to pour me a sparkling water, you know, do you have the sparkling water?

00:25:10.952 --> 00:25:21.449
Yeah, chris always makes fun of me because she says I go well, because sometimes when I say sparkling from the gun, I don't want a club soda from the gun, I want a Pellegrino or a.

00:25:21.489 --> 00:25:21.868
Topo Chico.

00:25:21.868 --> 00:25:22.891
Why don't you say that then?

00:25:23.154 --> 00:25:23.858
Well, I do so.

00:25:23.858 --> 00:25:26.031
She makes fun of me because I go do you have a sparkling water like?

00:25:26.093 --> 00:25:26.454
a Pellegrino.

00:25:26.454 --> 00:25:27.477
Do you have a?

00:25:27.477 --> 00:25:31.624
There's a long pause, sparkling water like a.

00:25:31.624 --> 00:25:35.655
Pellegrino, it's like 12 phrases of a Well cause.

00:25:35.675 --> 00:25:37.824
sometimes they have a Perrier or a Topo Chico.

00:25:38.104 --> 00:25:40.986
You're fine with all of those, though yes, do you have a bottled sparkling water?

00:25:40.986 --> 00:25:45.409
Oh, that's what I can say, yeah yeah, it doesn't need to be so sparkling water.

00:25:45.449 --> 00:25:46.869
Yeah, because that's where I struggle.

00:25:46.869 --> 00:25:55.516
Yeah, I don't want, because I don't mind the soda water oh, I hate the soda water and they're like, yeah, I'll bring, and then they bring it out and I always know, because it's like yeah, I don't mind that at all.

00:25:55.737 --> 00:25:57.278
Yeah, I don't mind any sparkling water.

00:25:57.500 --> 00:26:02.848
That's what I say you're like if they get it out of the toilet and they add the infused water as long as they lay in their bed.

00:26:02.868 --> 00:26:05.453
Dirty, we're fine, it's fine, no I don't mind that.

00:26:05.574 --> 00:26:06.636
I want a bottled sparkling.

00:26:06.636 --> 00:26:07.280
That's what you need to say.

00:26:07.300 --> 00:26:11.777
That's what I'm gonna say bottled sparkling water we don't need this long a the.

00:26:11.777 --> 00:26:13.579
Uh, I don't do this.

00:26:13.579 --> 00:26:14.901
Yeah, you do you.

00:26:14.901 --> 00:26:15.321
I can't.

00:26:15.321 --> 00:26:18.445
We're going to lunch, we're getting to sparkling water.

00:26:18.465 --> 00:26:19.867
Well, now I have a complex about it.

00:26:19.867 --> 00:26:20.228
Now I'm all.

00:26:20.228 --> 00:26:22.570
Do you have a Pellegrino sparkling water?

00:26:22.570 --> 00:26:24.741
Because she's made me so insecure about it.

00:26:24.823 --> 00:26:25.263
Well, I don't know.

00:26:25.263 --> 00:26:26.621
You know what you want?

00:26:26.621 --> 00:26:29.462
Just say a Perrier or a Topo Chico.

00:26:29.462 --> 00:26:31.194
It's not like that yeah, you.

00:26:31.194 --> 00:26:32.516
Just I'm having so many epiphany today.

00:26:32.516 --> 00:26:35.659
It's not like a Rumbleman, yeah, that's like so hard to think.

00:26:36.400 --> 00:26:43.486
Well, I doubt the competency of the server to know what a Pellegrino is.

00:26:43.626 --> 00:26:45.028
So then just tell them yes.

00:26:45.347 --> 00:26:48.570
So now I'm going to say do you have a bottled sparkling water, pellegrino, topo, chico, whatever?

00:26:48.590 --> 00:26:49.971
You don't need to list them oh.

00:26:52.155 --> 00:26:52.958
I'm getting crazy.

00:26:52.958 --> 00:26:55.282
Let them.

00:26:55.282 --> 00:26:56.988
You don't let them.

00:26:57.318 --> 00:26:57.925
I'm not letting them.00:26:57.925 --> 00:26:59.957


When it affects me, I'm not letting them do the job.00:26:59.957 --> 00:27:00.678


That's the thing.00:27:00.678 --> 00:27:02.020


Do you have a?00:27:02.020 --> 00:27:03.242


Let's say a?00:27:03.242 --> 00:27:06.469


It always is like a 12 before sparkling water.00:27:06.469 --> 00:27:09.883


Like sparkling water is the weirdest thing You've made me insecure.00:27:09.903 --> 00:27:13.242


No, do you have a bottled sparkling water?00:27:13.242 --> 00:27:14.385


That's what I'm going to ask for now.00:27:14.385 --> 00:27:15.113


Yes, do you have, and doesn't he?00:27:15.134 --> 00:27:15.776


have a, do you guys have?00:27:15.836 --> 00:27:16.836


bottled sparkling water.00:27:16.836 --> 00:27:19.820


That Perfect, yeah, yeah, and not give examples.00:27:19.820 --> 00:27:24.527


No, they don't need examples, but sometimes I doubt that the server knows that it's at the bar.00:27:24.527 --> 00:27:27.250


You know, like that's my, I have a problem.00:27:27.549 --> 00:27:28.230


I always doubt.00:27:29.375 --> 00:27:29.980


You never believe anyone.00:27:29.980 --> 00:27:31.025


I doubt people so much it's sad.00:27:31.045 --> 00:27:32.152


I'm like they're liars.00:27:32.152 --> 00:27:32.734


They're wrong.00:27:34.336 --> 00:27:39.124


She thinks everybody's liars but she's usually right, or I think they Like if I ask someone at a store.00:27:39.144 --> 00:27:40.425


What does the long pause do for them?00:27:40.465 --> 00:27:42.568


But if I ask someone at a store, hey, do you have this in the back?00:27:42.568 --> 00:27:44.942


And they're like no, I'm like well, it says online you have three.00:27:44.942 --> 00:27:46.861


It's like go back there and check.00:27:46.861 --> 00:27:50.122


I doubt their like competency.00:27:50.122 --> 00:27:51.325


It's like a problem.00:27:51.325 --> 00:27:52.607


Do you doubt my competency?00:27:52.607 --> 00:27:57.160


I don't feel like I doubt your competency for like work, work's the only.00:27:57.579 --> 00:27:58.080


You don't doubt.00:27:58.080 --> 00:28:00.243


No, I don't doubt it for coaching.00:28:00.243 --> 00:28:04.288


No, if I was like, hey, I just booked for Hawaii, I booked the Hyatt, you'd be like, no, you didn't.00:28:04.288 --> 00:28:05.529


I'd probably be like, send me the reservation.00:28:05.529 --> 00:28:06.750


Yeah, where did you book?00:28:06.750 --> 00:28:08.060


You probably booked in Tulsa.00:28:08.060 --> 00:28:09.280


I'd probably double check it.00:28:09.280 --> 00:28:18.023


Yeah, Back to Tulsa King though.00:28:18.023 --> 00:28:19.204


Oh yeah, let's talk, watch it.00:28:19.204 --> 00:28:20.086


I'm laughing.00:28:20.086 --> 00:28:20.946


I'm laughing.00:28:21.067 --> 00:28:23.549


I'm scared, I'm like emotions.00:28:23.549 --> 00:28:24.651


He's my dad.00:28:27.255 --> 00:28:27.375


He is.00:28:27.375 --> 00:28:28.789


First of all, he's very good looking, so good looking.00:28:28.789 --> 00:28:30.369


I get why the lady's sleeping with him when she shouldn't be.00:28:30.410 --> 00:28:32.240


I know when she's like how old are you?00:28:32.240 --> 00:28:34.199


Because he's Italian, they're massive.00:28:34.199 --> 00:28:35.775


When she's like how old are you?00:28:35.775 --> 00:28:37.057


And he was like 75.00:28:37.057 --> 00:28:37.836


I was like that's crazy.00:28:37.836 --> 00:28:39.038


Have you seen his wife in real?00:28:39.057 --> 00:28:39.258


life.00:28:39.258 --> 00:28:43.682


No, oh, his reality show, sylvester Stallone, is adorable.00:28:43.682 --> 00:28:48.145


Old school Kardashians the purest, innocentest adorable family.00:28:48.145 --> 00:28:48.807


Oh, that's cute.00:28:48.807 --> 00:28:53.009


He's the boss he makes his kids box and she's like he made them box.00:28:53.009 --> 00:28:56.537


She lets him, yeah, she lets him, yeah, let them.00:28:56.537 --> 00:28:58.280


She lets him, boss, he travels.00:28:58.280 --> 00:29:00.846


She's adorable, literally adorable.00:29:00.846 --> 00:29:01.950


Sweet as pie.00:29:01.950 --> 00:29:02.351


Tiny.00:29:02.351 --> 00:29:02.912


You would love her.00:29:02.912 --> 00:29:06.561


She's really good looking for like an older good looking the kids are good.00:29:06.561 --> 00:29:06.903


Looking.00:29:06.903 --> 00:29:07.525


They're tough.00:29:07.525 --> 00:29:08.856


They're hard on the kids.00:29:08.856 --> 00:29:10.821


Yeah, he's like I'm not risen some.00:29:11.262 --> 00:29:13.998


Yeah, I like the way he talks, even though it's kind of like what is he saying?00:29:13.998 --> 00:29:18.717


Did you have a stroke, but it's good still like when he walks with his suit.00:29:18.717 --> 00:29:23.939


He reminds me of my dad so much, and he's got and I think he's really short in real life but he has like a strut and the way they film it.00:29:23.939 --> 00:29:25.711


He doesn't look short but he's so.00:29:25.711 --> 00:29:31.199


Oh he's so like yeah, he's so, and I usually like the younger, you know, and I'm like, hey, maybe I'd go up to 75.00:29:31.199 --> 00:29:31.779


I don't know.00:29:32.079 --> 00:29:32.721


You're married?00:29:32.740 --> 00:29:35.923


No, I'm not thinking about it Like you know, like really thinking about it Just Somewhat thinking about it.00:29:36.003 --> 00:29:48.085


No, just like she didn't want to have her tubes tied in case Ben died so she could have another family.00:29:48.085 --> 00:29:49.278


That's thinking about it.00:29:49.720 --> 00:29:52.382


No, yes, all I said was yes.00:29:52.382 --> 00:29:53.916


You hear those freak stories where?00:29:53.916 --> 00:30:01.407


Like everybody, no, so you were just saying to, so I'm supposed to be alive with all my family gone and I can't have any more family.00:30:01.407 --> 00:30:01.888


It's horrible.00:30:01.949 --> 00:30:02.730


It doesn't replace them.00:30:03.075 --> 00:30:04.942


No, but now I've moved on from that.00:30:04.942 --> 00:30:06.800


I got them tied and it's fine, Thank you.00:30:06.800 --> 00:30:14.210


Thank you, no, but in the show what I love is the entrepreneur in me is like he is a little illegal.00:30:16.174 --> 00:30:18.096


He's killing people and it's mafia and drugs, but it's fine, he's an entrepreneur.00:30:18.096 --> 00:30:19.118


And and drugs, but it's fine, he's an entrepreneur.00:30:19.138 --> 00:30:25.846


And threatening he's all you're going to give me 25% for no reason and they're like okay, I'm like, should I get 25%?00:30:25.866 --> 00:30:29.671


Tyler, get in here You're going to give me 25% from now on.00:30:29.671 --> 00:30:34.977


He'd be like get the hell out of here.00:30:34.997 --> 00:30:35.919


Yeah, but I'm giving him 25%.00:30:35.919 --> 00:30:36.278


Oh, it's so good.00:30:36.278 --> 00:30:39.042


Everybody's giving him 25% and he, like, creates something out of nothing.00:30:39.042 --> 00:30:40.545


It's so intriguing.00:30:40.545 --> 00:30:42.969


Oh, it's so good oh it's so good he like becomes the king of.00:30:43.009 --> 00:30:47.983


Tulsa Like yeah, see, I'm only Like I'm stressing he's not gonna make it as the king of Tulsa right now.00:30:48.635 --> 00:30:49.439


What episode are you on?00:30:49.459 --> 00:30:57.503


Oh, my God he just killed that guy put his face on the thing for doing something to his daughter.00:30:57.503 --> 00:30:57.824


Oh yeah too.00:30:57.824 --> 00:30:58.305


It's crazy.00:30:58.665 --> 00:30:59.165


Oh, I love it.00:30:59.165 --> 00:31:00.048


I love all the mob.00:31:00.048 --> 00:31:01.569


They're like we have a sit down.00:31:01.569 --> 00:31:10.124


I'm like I'm going to tell my kids where I'm going to sit down, you know, like it's like where the mobsters meet and no one can kill anybody and they have a sit down and talk.00:31:10.124 --> 00:31:11.602


And now I'm going to be like I haven't seen this.00:31:11.602 --> 00:31:13.163


Oh, my family, when we're, I love that.00:31:13.163 --> 00:31:13.663


You're like that.00:31:13.663 --> 00:31:15.005


My mom used to do that.00:31:15.005 --> 00:31:24.580


Yeah, I do all those weird things.00:31:25.394 --> 00:31:27.000


Did you have family meetings growing up?00:31:27.080 --> 00:31:28.415


No, never, Really no.00:31:28.415 --> 00:31:29.259


That's why we have them now.00:31:29.259 --> 00:31:31.682


And then they know oh, mom's going to go on a tangent.00:31:31.682 --> 00:31:33.981


You know what does Ben do while you're doing it?00:31:33.981 --> 00:31:44.036


Yeah, he's talking, I'm all like.00:31:44.036 --> 00:31:44.657


He's like.00:31:44.657 --> 00:31:54.614


It's like, you know, when someone is like trying to piggyback and they go in the wrong way, wrong, he's all and you know when I was younger, and I'm like this is nothing to do with what we're talking about.00:31:54.634 --> 00:31:58.144


I'm talking about no one's feeding the dogs, no one's picking up the dog, and then he's all.00:31:58.144 --> 00:32:04.646


When I was younger and I played baseball and I'm all what it it's like, so I'm all you know.00:32:04.646 --> 00:32:05.409


Does he stop?00:32:05.409 --> 00:32:12.925


Well, so I'm all and I'm all well anyways, and then I like cut him off and he's like yeah, you know, it's so funny, it's bad.00:32:12.925 --> 00:32:13.768


No, he doesn't.00:32:13.768 --> 00:32:16.261


Sometimes he's just like, yeah, he's all.00:32:16.261 --> 00:32:20.146


You know, your mom and I we wish we had parents that.00:32:20.146 --> 00:32:21.407


Did you know that's cute.00:32:21.708 --> 00:32:22.650


It's like what are you talking about?00:32:22.650 --> 00:32:23.830


I feel like Kyle's more.00:32:23.830 --> 00:32:28.060


You too, I'd probably go on the tangent yeah, yeah, kyle does good with the talk.00:32:28.060 --> 00:32:32.506


He's really good, like if there's something going on and he's going to have a talk, he's really good at it.00:32:32.506 --> 00:32:35.059


Yeah, I might go on and on.00:32:35.361 --> 00:32:42.348


Yeah, way too long have to catch it before I'm freaking out, because that's when it's like scary tangent another documentary.00:32:42.529 --> 00:32:45.477


I we haven't talked about this stuff in a while, but I haven't gotten to get all my opinions out.00:32:45.477 --> 00:32:49.888


The OJ documentary is mind-blowing oh yeah, it's so bad.00:32:49.888 --> 00:32:54.642


Yeah, I was young, so I remember the glove and like I remember the high-speed chase.00:32:54.642 --> 00:32:56.915


Everybody remembers where they were when he's all oh, oh, it doesn't fit.00:32:56.915 --> 00:32:57.317


Is that what he did?00:32:57.317 --> 00:32:58.298


Yeah, oh, you should hear how it all went down.00:32:58.298 --> 00:32:59.079


It was clear day must acquit, remember.00:32:59.079 --> 00:32:59.520


The glove doesn't fit.00:32:59.520 --> 00:32:59.942


Is that what he did?00:32:59.942 --> 00:33:01.424


Yeah, oh, you should hear how it all went down.00:33:01.565 --> 00:33:03.328


It was clear as day it doesn't fit Must acquit.00:33:03.328 --> 00:33:05.752


Remember the glove doesn't fit, must acquit.00:33:05.813 --> 00:33:06.835


You know no, what's that yeah?00:33:06.855 --> 00:33:11.467


that was like the saying because it didn't fit, so you've got to set him free they found the glove.00:33:11.487 --> 00:33:12.469


Quit, not quit.00:33:12.549 --> 00:33:12.950


I'll quit.00:33:12.950 --> 00:33:18.508


Yes, so they were like because the glove didn't fit him, but it did.00:33:19.288 --> 00:33:23.678


And then, um yeah, oh, it's like me when I'm like trying to put my pants on.00:33:23.718 --> 00:33:26.513


You know, after like a bad weekend that was really good.00:33:26.554 --> 00:33:27.577


But there was another.00:33:27.577 --> 00:33:34.634


Oh, there was the influencer on Netflix about a momager with these kids on YouTube.00:33:34.634 --> 00:33:38.008


Another one, another one, another one, and it's bad.00:33:38.008 --> 00:33:39.373


It's so bad.00:33:39.373 --> 00:33:40.477


There was like the squad.00:33:40.477 --> 00:33:43.608


I've never seen these kids, but I'm sure my kids know who they are.00:33:43.608 --> 00:33:47.020


Yeah, so she tried to get her, like daughter, to be famous.00:33:47.020 --> 00:33:50.671


She was famous, like on singingly Singingly, remember that app?00:33:50.671 --> 00:33:52.055


Musically, musically.00:33:52.115 --> 00:33:52.817


It started there.00:33:53.217 --> 00:33:56.185


Yeah, so it started there.00:33:56.185 --> 00:33:56.487


She was famous.00:33:56.487 --> 00:33:57.690


She was like she was like a dancer, a pageant girl.00:33:57.690 --> 00:34:06.986


Then the mom started like managing the squad and she would find that like when there was more kids, you got more like views and then you'd share each other just like they do.00:34:06.986 --> 00:34:15.067


Yeah, um, so then she would make them like kiss and like have fake relationships and then in the night she would crawl in their room Like it got dark.00:34:15.067 --> 00:34:28.802


It was crazy what, yeah, it's called social influence or something Really, but it's crazy like how the filming was like 7 to midnight, like they would film all day long and like we talked about this last week because I was just listening this morning.00:34:28.802 --> 00:34:31.047


Yeah, about my Brooke Ray bird or whatever.00:34:31.068 --> 00:34:33.170


Yeah, and I'm like, picture the tripod.00:34:33.170 --> 00:34:34.532


I'm like it changes the whole thing.00:34:34.532 --> 00:34:38.418


Yeah, I fall right into it where you're watching these kids and I'm like, oh, it's so real.00:34:38.418 --> 00:34:39.000


It's not real.00:34:39.000 --> 00:34:46.867


No, and I feel like there should be some sort of like laws that protect children.00:34:46.867 --> 00:34:49.329


That's what they're, they're so they're suing the mom and they're like this is like the wild, wild west.00:34:49.329 --> 00:34:50.148


There's no laws on this.00:34:50.148 --> 00:34:51.349


Because it's like a newer thing.00:34:51.349 --> 00:34:52.951


Yeah, like it's new, like they didn't have breaks.00:34:52.951 --> 00:34:54.652


They didn't have like lunch.00:34:54.652 --> 00:34:59.637


You know, like at a normal job you have like rules in place and these kids didn't have rules in place.00:34:59.856 --> 00:35:04.260


And they're being forced to work because it's like their parents.00:35:04.300 --> 00:35:06.561


They're providing for their whole parent's paycheck.00:35:06.561 --> 00:35:08.563


It's crazy, like they're paying the bills, yeah.00:35:08.563 --> 00:35:16.675


So then she got kicked off of YouTube because the lawsuit which is good that YouTube, once you have like negative publicity, you can't make money anymore.00:35:16.675 --> 00:35:26.478


So then they put her on this other site called my brand, where my I've never heard of it, but it's like, it's really scary.00:35:26.478 --> 00:35:29.827


It's like, um, what's that one we always joke about?00:35:29.827 --> 00:35:30.789


Only fans?00:35:30.789 --> 00:35:33.114


Yeah, it's for 18 and under.00:35:33.114 --> 00:35:45.233


It's like my brand or my story, so the name sounds okay, but it's all like for younger girls doing like I'm so thirsty, you know like, but it's not like.00:35:45.233 --> 00:35:46.237


You know.00:35:46.237 --> 00:35:49.585


It's not like inappropriate, but it's inappropriate, oh my God.00:35:49.585 --> 00:35:52.012


And it's all like pedophiles on there and they make a lot of money.00:35:52.213 --> 00:35:52.996


That should be illegal.00:35:52.996 --> 00:35:58.072


I'm like, like are you trying out though, like are you on, and it's not illegal?00:35:58.092 --> 00:35:59.474


make that illegal and it's not illegal.00:35:59.474 --> 00:36:02.052


So the mom couldn't pay the bills because she they got kicked off.00:36:02.052 --> 00:36:05.849


So they got desperate and they're on this, yeah, but it's not like.00:36:05.849 --> 00:36:08.699


It's not like they're doing only fans things.00:36:08.699 --> 00:36:13.110


But yeah, that's what those predators like is the girls being girls, do you get what I mean?00:36:13.110 --> 00:36:14.652


Like they're a little bit more.00:36:14.652 --> 00:36:25.771


And then there was this guy that would send them stuff and he was called like Poppy I forget the name, yeah, and they'd be like Poppy's on the phone and the girl would have to talk to him and he would send them like things.00:36:26.052 --> 00:36:26.672


It was bad.00:36:26.672 --> 00:36:27.594


That's crazy.00:36:27.594 --> 00:36:29.117


It was bad, it was so bad.00:36:29.117 --> 00:36:31.748


Yeah, crazy documentary.00:36:32.230 --> 00:36:35.255


I'm like really all ends of the spectrum, this weekend.00:36:35.336 --> 00:36:38.320


Yeah, yeah, but it was about like a tornado years ago.00:36:38.340 --> 00:36:39.322


It was crazy.00:36:39.322 --> 00:36:42.393


Tornadoes really freak me out because they come so quickly.00:36:42.393 --> 00:36:49.364


I know you say that about Kyle, but I'm just kidding.00:36:49.824 --> 00:36:51.231


It was just like an awkward pause.00:36:51.585 --> 00:36:52.771


I felt wrong after I said it.00:36:52.771 --> 00:36:59.188


No, they form so quickly and they I can't get it out of my head now.00:36:59.188 --> 00:37:03.617


Yeah, they show up out of nowhere and so it's.00:37:03.617 --> 00:37:09.987


There's not a lot of time to like prepare and get safe, so I could never live in a place with tornadoes and they're so powerful.00:37:10.387 --> 00:37:13.715


Yeah, these people were pulled up in the thing?00:37:13.715 --> 00:37:14.996


No, yeah, and they survived.00:37:14.996 --> 00:37:16.666


It was crazy, this one kid.00:37:16.666 --> 00:37:24.516


When they found him, his heart was exposed, so much had taken off his chest, and then there was like a fungus from all the ground being pulled up.00:37:24.516 --> 00:37:29.331


Oh yeah, like he had like a flesh-eating virus, that they had to cut him up and like now he has four kids.00:37:29.331 --> 00:37:37.896


I love seeing like weird things happen and then you see the success of it inside out like it was crazy.00:37:37.916 --> 00:37:38.117


Oh my gosh.00:37:38.117 --> 00:37:38.639


I read the craziest story.00:37:38.639 --> 00:37:40.728


It just reminded me of that because I was thinking, oh god, like saved him.00:37:40.728 --> 00:37:44.480


This craziest story was this guy I want to find it.00:37:44.480 --> 00:37:48.690


He survived a plane crash when he was younger with his like tennis team.00:37:48.690 --> 00:37:53.507


He was like he was on like a travel tennis yeah, and he before the plane.00:37:53.507 --> 00:37:55.416


He was going to like a tournament tennis yeah, and he before the plane.00:37:55.416 --> 00:37:57.025


He was going to like a tournament.00:37:57.025 --> 00:38:01.070


And before the plane happened he told his mom he had a dream that the plane was going to crash.00:38:01.070 --> 00:38:01.452


Oh gosh.00:38:01.452 --> 00:38:04.257


And he told his mom I had that dream Remember, over the ocean.00:38:04.416 --> 00:38:05.679


Ew, don't say that, yeah.00:38:06.300 --> 00:38:06.360


Ew.00:38:07.166 --> 00:38:08.070


I've been telling you about it.00:38:08.070 --> 00:38:11.768


And so the mom goes oh, it's just a dream, it's no big deal.00:38:11.768 --> 00:38:26.231


So he gets on the flight and he's on the flight and he's a kid, and he they're in the air and he goes to the bathroom to go use the restroom and God tells him the plane's going to crash, don't buckle your seatbelt.00:38:26.231 --> 00:38:30.990


And he, like it's crazy, cause you know, like stories in the Bible, it's all God said.00:38:30.990 --> 00:38:39.246


And like now, when I hear things come in my head sometimes I'm like is that me?00:38:39.246 --> 00:38:39.487


Is that God?00:38:39.487 --> 00:38:39.969


Like how do you know?00:38:39.969 --> 00:38:41.675


But I think maybe, if you know, you know so maybe just hasn't happened to me.00:38:41.675 --> 00:38:42.818


So God literally said don't put your seatbelt on.00:38:42.818 --> 00:38:57.907


So he walks back and he sits down and the plane crash and he, because he didn't have a seatbelt on, he didn't buckle his seatbelt, he is was like the only survivor.00:38:57.907 --> 00:39:00.972


He was ejected from the plane and landed like miles away in like a field and he lived and it's crazy.00:39:01.152 --> 00:39:01.273


It's.00:39:01.273 --> 00:39:03.818


You would have been buckling your thing so tight too.00:39:04.039 --> 00:39:06.650


I don't know if God fully said that to me, though I would listen.00:39:07.353 --> 00:39:11.347


But what do you think when you're squeezing your seatbelt so tight on the plane?00:39:11.347 --> 00:39:12.869


Oh, I squeeze it so tight, like.00:39:12.869 --> 00:39:16.235


But I'm being honest, if the plane goes down that seatbelt, I'm going to help you?00:39:16.295 --> 00:39:17.958


No, it just makes me feel more secure.00:39:18.599 --> 00:39:25.786


You know, no, I feel like God's told me things all the time Randomly like that, like even dumb things like call Shirley right now, and I'm like why should I call Shirley?00:39:25.786 --> 00:39:27.027


Call her, she's crying.00:39:27.027 --> 00:39:29.329


I'm like, whoa, that was real and what.00:39:29.329 --> 00:39:30.969


I have that all the time.00:39:30.969 --> 00:39:34.393


I used to have that a lot at night.00:39:34.393 --> 00:39:34.913


Call your dad.00:39:34.913 --> 00:39:47.181


I even had that the night before my dad died and I like had a feeling, yeah, of like I've talked about it, where I saw mom and dad calling on the thing and I was like tomorrow I'm going to spend the whole day with them.00:39:47.181 --> 00:39:50.927


I just had a weird feeling, yeah, and I knew I needed to go on that trip.00:39:50.927 --> 00:39:52.670


I knew I needed to go early.00:39:52.670 --> 00:39:53.711


Remember, kyle was mad.00:39:53.711 --> 00:39:56.275


I just knew, yeah, like I feel like I have that a lot.00:39:56.275 --> 00:40:00.326


I wonder the times we did listen or didn't listen, you know it's crazy.00:40:01.568 --> 00:40:02.952


Yeah, I don't feel like I have that a lot.00:40:03.213 --> 00:40:06.927


Really no, that's because you think you're you're gone Know everything.00:40:07.067 --> 00:40:09.670


Yeah Well, I hear myself.00:40:09.670 --> 00:40:11.192


No, you don't ever hear that.00:40:11.192 --> 00:40:17.699


I mean, I've had things happen where I'm like oh, I should do that, but not like don't buckle your seatbelt.00:40:17.739 --> 00:40:19.340


See, I've had moments like that totally.00:40:19.340 --> 00:40:20.989


No, never Like don't go in that car.00:40:20.989 --> 00:40:22.666


I have a bad feeling, but see.00:40:22.887 --> 00:40:27.175


I have those bad feelings a lot, so if I listened every time I had that bad feeling, it'd be every time I fly.00:40:36.264 --> 00:40:36.847


Oh, when we get on a plane.00:40:36.867 --> 00:40:37.047


I'm like.00:40:37.067 --> 00:40:38.831


I mean so no, but like specifics like don't do this or like don't.00:40:38.831 --> 00:40:39.775


I've had many of those things, yeah weird.00:40:39.795 --> 00:40:40.155


Yeah, that's crazy.00:40:40.155 --> 00:40:40.496


Maybe I need a.00:40:40.496 --> 00:40:41.239


Maybe the lines clogged.00:40:41.239 --> 00:40:42.505


You know where did you read that story?00:40:42.505 --> 00:40:43.347


Is it a movie or like?00:40:43.347 --> 00:40:46.373


No, it was on like um people or something.00:40:46.434 --> 00:40:47.096


I'm gonna find it.00:40:47.317 --> 00:40:49.490


Yeah, that's interesting it was so crazy.00:40:49.490 --> 00:40:53.925


I shared it with my kids because I was like you gotta listen to God when you get that feeling.00:40:53.925 --> 00:40:54.684


Did you have a family meeting about it?00:40:54.684 --> 00:40:54.802


No, but I should.00:40:54.773 --> 00:40:55.608


Yeah, I was like you got to listen to God when you get that feeling.00:40:55.608 --> 00:40:56.297


Did you have a family meeting about it?00:40:56.297 --> 00:40:57.320


No, but I should.00:40:57.579 --> 00:41:00.106


Yeah, I feel like that's something I would have a family meeting about.00:41:00.106 --> 00:41:06.918


And um, and I did tell I think I told Bear the story and I'm pretty sure I told him all.00:41:06.918 --> 00:41:09.351


But I know for sure I told Bear because I remember he was so into it.00:41:09.371 --> 00:41:34.474


He was like then what happened you know, oh, bear yeah remember, oh God on the plane he flies, just like tisha I love bear because he's just like the one I can tell things to and he really like listens and my other kids are like, yeah, yeah, mom's doing this again, you know, yeah, but he really is into it, he like asks questions, he like really pays attention and I was like that gut feeling is god, yeah, if you get that, you know, yeah, I'm gonna link it for the jerkies if they want to read it.00:41:34.474 --> 00:41:36.992


Yeah, that's that's really good, it was crazy.00:41:37.172 --> 00:41:41.027


Yeah, I'm sure I got some of the details messed up, but I know the seatbelt oh, I feel like it's pretty real.00:41:41.068 --> 00:41:41.570


that's crazy.00:41:41.570 --> 00:41:43.775


Yeah, I do have those moments, but I do learn.00:41:43.775 --> 00:41:49.097


The more time I don't spend in quiet with God, the harder it is for me to hear him.00:41:49.097 --> 00:41:57.853


That's like my big thing with like walking, like I'm trying to like work out a little harder since the NCAA and maybe God's trying to tell you something, so I'm trying to ride, bike and get my heart rate up a little higher.00:41:57.853 --> 00:42:02.295


But I really enjoy walking because I like it's quiet time where nothing's distracting me.00:42:02.295 --> 00:42:06.056


Yeah, and I can like hear and pray and like get in line with him.00:42:06.056 --> 00:42:09.969


And I think sometimes the devil keeps us so busy where we don't have time to ever hear him.00:42:09.969 --> 00:42:13.695


Yeah, or like we think we know more than what he's leading Like.00:42:13.735 --> 00:42:16.760


Sometimes you have to we talked about this recently about some decisions you're trying to make.00:42:16.760 --> 00:42:38.231


Sometimes it's hard to just sit in a pause and wait for God to like tell you what to do, yeah, or like wait for the door to unfold, but then just like that coach story we've told this before of like you're like, and I feel like this might be happening right now, but we're not seeing it yet when yet?00:42:38.231 --> 00:42:40.000


When you were like when we were young, tisha called me and she was frustrated about, like, what to do with her life.00:42:40.000 --> 00:42:40.391


She's like I'm just frustrated.00:42:40.391 --> 00:42:40.431


What to do?00:42:40.431 --> 00:42:41.528


I'm praying, I'm going to church, nothing's happening, yeah.00:42:41.528 --> 00:42:43.760


And five minutes before she told me how her dad said her dad's friend called her to work at coach.00:42:43.760 --> 00:42:49.190


And I was like wait, five minutes ago you just said that someone called you from coach to work for you because your dad set it up.00:42:49.190 --> 00:42:56.670


She's like I'm not selling purses, yeah, and I like, but you're asking God to do it and he's showing up and you're missing it Totally Because you think you're God.00:42:56.784 --> 00:42:59.153


And then because you talked to me, I ended up working there.00:42:59.173 --> 00:43:00.056


And it was a great thing.00:43:00.065 --> 00:43:01.331


I was a manager for like five years.00:43:01.331 --> 00:43:03.144


It was a totally like great experience.00:43:03.224 --> 00:43:10.954


And I feel like in the other thing, you keep running into certain people and you're like I don't know what God wants us to, but you're like not seeing it.00:43:11.193 --> 00:43:15.759


It's like that thing where it's like God sent a sign, the boop, Not that sign.00:43:15.759 --> 00:43:16.559


You know the next sign.00:43:16.559 --> 00:43:20.588


Have you heard that boat one, yeah, and he's like God.00:43:20.588 --> 00:43:21.393


Why are you forsaking me?00:43:21.393 --> 00:43:22.702


And he's like I sent you 10 boats, you know?00:43:22.822 --> 00:43:24.791


Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like that happens with you sometimes.00:43:24.791 --> 00:43:25.373


Yeah.00:43:40.465 --> 00:43:41.387


But like it's not, it's hard for me.00:43:41.387 --> 00:43:45.255


So I do feel like when I'm reading the bible, I do feel like I am very connected to God.00:43:45.255 --> 00:43:47.206


Obviously it's his word, so you know.00:43:47.206 --> 00:43:52.193


But I do feel like when I because I try to read it you know at least a little bit.00:43:52.193 --> 00:44:04.847


You know at least a few times a week, and I do feel like when I'm reading I, I get those moments and something will come out to me and I'll be like during none yes, it like correlates it.00:44:04.889 --> 00:44:09.713


Yes, and I'm like oh, you're feeling like you're hearing from him, from him, and I know because it's the word.00:44:09.713 --> 00:44:11.842


It's true, because sometimes it's hard, I mix.00:44:11.842 --> 00:44:12.806


Well, you think everyone's lying?00:44:12.806 --> 00:44:14.590


Yeah, is it me, is it?00:44:14.590 --> 00:44:16.052


And I don't trust myself.00:44:16.052 --> 00:44:17.755


Yeah, it's like I think every plane's crashing.00:44:17.755 --> 00:44:20.387


Clearly, it hasn't crashed yet, so it's hard to know.00:44:20.387 --> 00:44:24.597


I know what is from me, what's made up, you know totally.00:44:24.657 --> 00:44:30.786


I think that's from your childhood of like always depending on only you, yeah, where it's hard for you to depend on something you can't even see.00:44:30.786 --> 00:44:32.329


You know totally.00:44:32.329 --> 00:44:36.748


Yeah, it's deep, it's getting deep not that deep, it's not that deep, but this is getting that deep.00:44:36.748 --> 00:44:38.432


Yeah, have you watched the Kardashians?00:44:38.432 --> 00:44:43.514


I haven't watched it, but I ran out of things so I was watching it and like, um, I was.00:44:43.514 --> 00:44:44.657


They were talking about counseling.00:44:44.657 --> 00:44:53.773


I guess Khloe's going now and Kim started to go finally, and it's like I can already tell they're better because of it and I'm like, when you've been through all those things, why weren't you going to like?00:44:53.773 --> 00:45:01.262


But I think Kim thought she knew everything, yeah, but like she was working herself into a disease to fill up a void.00:45:01.423 --> 00:45:01.605


Yeah.00:45:01.905 --> 00:45:05.652


And now she's like being more normal and I'm like that's so cool that you finally are figuring it out.00:45:05.652 --> 00:45:19.574


Yeah, and Chloe too, like you've had a lot of bad things happen to you, totally Like with men, yeah, yeah, so she's like finding out why she's the way she is and it's like so intriguing, whereas like Courtney's super healthy right now with like her relationships and happiness.00:45:19.574 --> 00:45:24.581


Like she's like literally, I'm like she really likes Travis, like I've never seen something.00:45:24.922 --> 00:45:27.974


It's a lot of making out hard it's, it's different for me.00:45:27.974 --> 00:45:34.750


I don't, because I feel like Ben and I are affectionate but we're not shoving throats each each other's tongues you're not a kisser, though.00:45:35.271 --> 00:45:36.913


No see, I am a kisser.00:45:36.913 --> 00:45:38.976


She doesn't kiss, she does that.00:45:38.976 --> 00:45:45.068


Yeah, yeah, like a peck, you don't like suck his lip wait what?00:45:45.250 --> 00:45:53.534


no, oh yeah, one time he got back from a trip and we were I'm sitting at the sidelines of Fox's football game and he was gone for like three or four days in a work trip.00:45:53.534 --> 00:46:07.295


And so he's running up to coach and he's like hi, honey, and he bends down to give me a kiss and I'm like literally in front of the whole football team and I went like this, like for him to give me a kiss on the cheek, and he was so offended and like we had a whole talk about it.00:46:07.295 --> 00:46:09.664


He's like don't ever not kiss me.00:46:09.664 --> 00:46:15.697


I'm like what do you want me to like, you know, like it's just the weirdest thing, like I don't want to kiss you in front of all these people.00:46:15.697 --> 00:46:19.465


It was just kind of I don't know yeah, I'm not a big, like public, yeah.00:46:19.565 --> 00:46:27.306


So I was like that and he got, so like he was, I was like it's just not that deep, you know see, yeah, because it wasn't that deep.00:46:27.327 --> 00:46:32.224


He thought, yeah, it wasn't, I just was like, yeah, get over there and coach.00:46:32.244 --> 00:46:33.186


Why are you kissing me?00:46:33.266 --> 00:46:47.717


you know that's what I was thinking, but you don't tongue kiss ever sometimes, if we're in a mood you don't not on the regular, no see, I yeah, but I still don't make out in front of kids no, the kids is in front of the kids is weird.00:46:48.018 --> 00:46:50.829


Like ben will grab my butt and she'll be like straddling him.00:46:50.829 --> 00:46:56.277


Yeah no, I just feel like it's very, it's a long kiss, it's like it's not a quick.00:46:56.277 --> 00:46:57.559


Yeah, it's a lot.00:46:57.844 --> 00:46:59.411


But she really is so happy with him.00:46:59.672 --> 00:47:00.414


I'm happy for her.00:47:00.684 --> 00:47:01.929


Chloe met up with Lamar.00:47:01.929 --> 00:47:06.655


I saw that and it was sad seeing them before and it was sad.00:47:22.405 --> 00:47:22.523


She said they had a lot.00:47:22.523 --> 00:47:24.807


Did you watch the episodes like the source for the whole family?00:47:24.807 --> 00:47:25.003


Yeah, it's sad.00:47:25.003 --> 00:47:25.260


I don't get the Chris and Corey thing, do you?00:47:25.260 --> 00:47:26.373


I mean, unless it's just the I don't know it's weird, but I did feel sad for Lamar.00:47:26.264 --> 00:47:27.262


I could honestly feel that feeling.00:47:27.262 --> 00:47:27.731


She felt me too.00:47:27.731 --> 00:47:28.269


It's just too far gone.00:47:28.269 --> 00:47:29.373


Too far gone, yeah, and they are not too far gone.00:47:29.373 --> 00:47:30.416


Oh, I've had that.00:47:30.416 --> 00:47:32.038


I was like get back with him, I know.00:47:32.038 --> 00:47:34.672


But I could feel I know she was like how she felt where you're almost like pity yeah them.00:47:34.672 --> 00:47:35.516


Yeah, I'm like, oh, get back with him, I know.00:47:35.516 --> 00:47:37.025


But I could feel exactly how she felt when you're almost like pity them.00:47:37.025 --> 00:47:39.969


I'm like, oh, I've had that, like it's crazy.00:47:39.969 --> 00:47:42.215


I agree, it was so relatable.00:47:42.494 --> 00:47:44.179


It was relatable, yeah it was.00:47:44.625 --> 00:47:46.632


She seems like a really good person, chloe.00:47:46.632 --> 00:47:49.628


Yeah, I feel like of all of them, she seems like the nicest.00:47:50.068 --> 00:47:52.251


I didn't mean to judge, but did you watch her recorder podcast?00:47:52.251 --> 00:47:55.476


No, not that we're the podcast Queens, but I was like we've got to relax.00:47:55.476 --> 00:48:03.284


Oh, she's like nervous, oh so nervous, and I'm like just talk.00:48:03.284 --> 00:48:04.768


I mean not like we, we made it, but like I just think it's relatable.00:48:04.768 --> 00:48:07.492


Hopefully that we don't know, we don't have it all planned and it's not like, yeah, so scripted.00:48:07.791 --> 00:48:09.253


That's what we hope I don't know.00:48:09.253 --> 00:48:16.264


But speaking of Tisha, we are not quitting still, but a lot of you have sent nice messages to us.00:48:16.264 --> 00:48:16.987


It really helps.00:48:16.987 --> 00:48:19.233


The bear story last week was really funny.00:48:19.233 --> 00:48:22.978


I mean I thought it was funny when it was happening, but I've listened to it twice already because it's pretty funny.00:48:22.978 --> 00:48:26.751


Yeah, but thank you for that and thank you for those of you that have shared recently.00:48:26.751 --> 00:48:28.257


A lot of you have done that.00:48:28.304 --> 00:48:29.887


That's really nice yeah, and leave reviews.00:48:29.887 --> 00:48:31.791


Any of that, we really are grateful.00:48:31.791 --> 00:48:45.887


Yeah, finally, no, I don't really listen to the podcast ever and I listened to last week's because I was like just listening and making some changes and I was dying laughing.00:48:45.887 --> 00:48:47.893


I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm so funny.00:48:47.893 --> 00:48:51.184


But like, not me, but like I'm like the podcast is so funny.00:48:51.184 --> 00:48:54.650


I call crystal, like, hey, I found this new great podcast and it's ours.00:48:54.650 --> 00:48:56.454


She's like I told you it's good.00:48:56.454 --> 00:48:57.414


I'm like it's so good.00:48:57.414 --> 00:49:04.512


It has like funny humor, it has like the hard moments and it has like advice.00:49:04.512 --> 00:49:07.398


And then it has like just dumb stuff, I don't know.00:49:07.398 --> 00:49:08.807


It has it's like all encompassing.00:49:08.807 --> 00:49:11.094


So I'm like, oh, it's such a good podcast.00:49:11.114 --> 00:49:15.759


It's like you know I've said that before and you're like it's relatable because it's you.00:49:15.759 --> 00:49:16.940


Yeah, I did say that.00:49:17.119 --> 00:49:18.760


But are we going to go to brunch?00:49:18.760 --> 00:49:20.521


Oh my God, we're doing this again.00:49:20.541 --> 00:49:21.222


I think you've perked up.00:49:21.222 --> 00:49:22.302


I don't think I can have alcohol.00:49:22.362 --> 00:49:23.306


I have a bad headache.00:49:23.306 --> 00:49:25.027


I need some Advil Dang it.00:49:25.027 --> 00:49:25.889


I was hoping we did yeah.00:49:26.289 --> 00:49:27.610


We went to Chino Bandito last week.00:49:27.610 --> 00:49:28.733


I could maybe go there.00:49:28.753 --> 00:49:29.253


All right.00:49:29.253 --> 00:49:30.976


Well, let's go somewhere good with an espresso mardini.00:49:30.996 --> 00:49:31.757


Yeah.00:49:36.527 --> 00:49:37.632


Maybe that'll help with the headache.00:49:37.632 --> 00:49:38.496


You know the caffeine.00:49:38.496 --> 00:49:39.298


We'll see All right.00:49:39.298 --> 00:49:40.242


All right, thanks for listening.00:49:40.242 --> 00:49:40.804


Have a good week.00:49:41.324 --> 00:49:50.586


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