S3 E14: Oops! Cupid Struck, Closet Shook, & Faith Took Off

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Welcome to Jerking Around, a podcast that makes you feel better about yourself, because we're a mess just like you, and Crystal makes fun of me the whole time and it's great and it's real.

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Hey guys, hey guys, what about this?

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Hey guys, tisha's building herself up before we get started.

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I'm like, I'm like a boxer, you know, and they're like hitting themselves.

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You know, like before, like there it is, he like hits himself and I'm like what's happening?

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That's not normal, but now I want to do it.

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Oh, welcome, look alive you know, oh yeah, we're really excited to record this week.

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We got a new audience member.

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Here we got a new.

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We got to think of the name, not Pod Mommy, like Pod Mommy, how you say with the I.

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Oh, Mommy member.

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Yeah, that's what I was trying to say out there and you're jerking me, looking at your phone, never paying attention.

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I was working Well somebody has to Somebody yeah exactly.

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For those of you that don't know, tisha and I actually work together.

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Yeah, I know we sound like a we you know lesbian friends, but we're not together.

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We always say that I have a new crush.

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She's in the room.

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And I'm out.

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Melissa's here, yeah, and I'm weirdly jealous.

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Yeah, I don't like Melissa.

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No, I do, but I am a little jealous.

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I know you do like it, I don't want your lesbian energy affections.

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You like it, though, but I do, I know, you do, I know, I do.

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Do you get jealous when I have a new friend?

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No, I just get like oh, here we go.

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You know, all right, let's talk about okay, but I do don't stop giving the lesbian energy to me.

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You know, like you said, it gives me extra confidence.

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You know, like I could do anything she made me think I could do it.

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Yeah, remember that.

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Yeah, bodyguard, bodyguard, yeah.

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It's behind every man is like a woman that believes in him.

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It's like behind every girl is like her.

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I believe that, though you are like the wind beneath my wings.

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Oh, it's getting weird, I feel different, yeah, but anyways, last week when you were talking about pet my kitty, it was so weird listening to that when I was driving.

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I thought it was the funniest thing, though I would never let you do that.

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No, I don't want to do it.

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No Kind of no.

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You do no I don't, I don't.

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But let's talk about trending topics.

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I can't get enough of Paige DeSorbo.

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For those of you that don't care about her, I'm gonna stop talking about it after this week soon, I hope so.

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I'm going to teach a mad about it.

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I hope so too.

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We have, like, work things that are very we're realtors.

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No, yeah.

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I called her last night to talk about like actual work stuff, like important, time sensitive work, very important and she's like well, can you believe Paige in the Super Bowl and that hotel room was weird.

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And I was like, wait a minute.

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No, like these are real people's lives.

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It was weird, though.

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I shared it on the jerking around, yeah, instagram, like first of all, taking a picture in a hotel room with the bed a mess behind you.

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And there was like two twin beds.

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So I'm like, why are they staying in a room with two?

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They were foals, weren't they?

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Yeah, but why are you?

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Why don't you get a king?

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Supposedly it was her room that he was just spending a lot of time in in my deep dive on Instagram, but anyway, paige Estorbo from Summer House.

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Summer House is coming out this week it starts and she supposedly didn't cheat on Craig blah, blah, blah.

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But I think she had an emotional feelings for someone else and that's why they got out.

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That's what we keep saying.

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No girl leaves just because and he went on, he went on.

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He went on.

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Watch what happens life, which is a show on bravo, and said really some great things, though he said that quote was so sad.

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My favorite person in the universe is now a lesson right is that how you felt about your high school?

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boyfriend.

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That's very relatable it is relatable I feel like all my favorite people were lessons oh my gosh.

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yeah, it's like the way he worded it.

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Yeah, is that how you feel about?

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No, I do feel like, yeah, yeah, I do feel like they were all lessons, you know, yeah.

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So I do think that's actually a really profound thing from profound from Craig, yeah.

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No, he was actually really good.

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Do you think that you can stay friends with an ex?

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This is the topic everybody wants to know.

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No, really no.

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So Paige said that years ago on a podcast.

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She doesn't believe in being friends with an ex.

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I I feel like you're friends with one, but he wasn't a real ex it was a secret closet oh my god, no, no, that was not uh-uh.

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No, it was like oh, you know, no, so anyways, yeah, but you didn't have a relationship, you just had it.

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Exactly no one.

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I don't think I don't know anyone that has a close relationship with an ex that they were in a relationship with.

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If you're married, like if you're single, maybe, but once you get married, I don't think you really stay friends.

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I don't have like a lot of guy friends.

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Do you think you still yeah, which I think is normal?

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I don't think it's appropriate, when you're married, to have guy friends?

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Yeah, it's not appropriate at all.

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But I have, like I say I have one who Drew.

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Oh yeah, he I feel like is a good friend, but he's friends with Kyle too.

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Yeah, but you know so many family friends cheat the groups.

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They're all best friends.

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Yeah.

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Then one night they're drinking just like the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

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Yeah, they all were hanging out.

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Then the guy looks at the girl, then behind the scenes, yeah, Well, you had that happen to you younger.

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No, you're.

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Oh shoot, this is wrong.

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Sorry, and that's defamation.

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And you didn't even say allegedly.

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Allegedly, yeah, no, but do you think that you still love them forever, like I would say?

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I think I'd still love all my exes Like I wouldn't want them?

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I wouldn't want something bad to happen to them, but like I mean kind feelings.

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I don't think love Really.

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You wouldn't say I love you, wooshie, no.

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Tisha's ex-boyfriend used to call her wooshie, because that's cool.

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It was t-she, we she, wooshie, woo, and it got shortened to wooshie and that's the.

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That's where, like, I feel like my, I never knew this.

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I'm so concerned, I feel like that's where the baby talk originated.

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I feel like I even baby talked in high school and it originated say that again I do think high school loves are real time out.

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I need to hear about that.

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Yeah, can you?

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say that whole thing.

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T did you start with.

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No, because I bonnie, ponnie, sonny, nonnie because, I must attract men that baby talk, because I baby talk I don't know I'm a baby talker like I need to go to like baby talkers anonymous, you know, like I think it's so weird.

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I don't baby talk whatsoever.

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Do you, baby talk to your kids?

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Mommy's girl, yeah, I talked.

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Baby talk to your kids mommy's girl.

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Yeah, I talked, baby, talk to your kids, you know but in the bedroom, do you baby?

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Talk.

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No, we've already had this.

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Stop it.

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You're being naughty today.

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She's in a feisty mood, I am.

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I'm in a grouchy mood.

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So then I'm either really rude or really funny.

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Yeah no, but I do think what were we saying?

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I know it was good.

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What did you just say?

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No, I said I think so high school loves like oh, I think it's real.

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Everyone's always like they minimize it.

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It's so annoying like you'll meet the one later.

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I think it's different later, but I do think that first love it, like whether it's high school or college, whenever you have it the first?

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No, it's the first love.

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It's very deep.

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It's almost like you you're so gross.

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It's almost like you're so like innocent yes that I think you love so like openly and like without holding back yeah or games, yes and you're kind of just like your purest self.

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Yes, totally, I completely agree.

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My first love was three years and it was like real.

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Mine was five and it was so real, like a hundred percent.

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Remember five years one day, yeah.

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What would we say?

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I don't remember New bed, new you or something I don't know, but no, I remember like my first boyfriend falling in love with him.

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It was only I was in eighth grade and I remember how consuming it was.

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Like you don't even have that feeling when you're older, Right, and have that feeling when you're older, Right, it's like different, but like you don't have all those games, you haven't been hurt, Right.

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That's like why, with my kids, I'm like I don't know if I want you to have all these relationships before the one, Because Kyle, my husband, he didn't have like serious relationships.

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Yeah, so like he loves, like that, like more pure.

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Well, sometimes I'm like going to show him and I'm not really showing him.

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I'm showing the guy that left me on the freeway.

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He's like what are you talking about?

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Yeah, and I'm like I am not putting up with you, you know.

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He's like I just put gas in your car, you know.

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Yeah, totally, I feel like it is so pure.

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I think parents always minimize it Like you're fine.

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Well, we've gotten a lot of listeners from last week.

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Thank you to those.

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A lot of people have shared.

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They've reached out to us.

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Yeah, tisha's, not we turned a corner.

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They do give us advice and it's kind of cool.

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So we talked about last week how our, you know, daughters are grouchy in eighth grade and it's going through, and Maddie's.

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You know Tisha doesn't want to talk about her kids because she doesn't want them to be affected, but I'm more fine with it, it's just what's going on in our life.

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I'm just respecting their privacy.

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That's nice.

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More so on the social media.

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A little grouchy right now too, like in the last couple of weeks, but I think it's easy as parents to be like.

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Nothing in your life is that important.

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But we also need to like remember at that time it was so important.

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There was nothing about it, that was not so important.

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You know, what I mean.

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Like I think we forget that, like to them this is everything right.

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Like we're going to nationals this week for cheer and Maddie's on my team and she's like so stressed about it and I'm like it's not, you've done 50 travel trips, but I have to remember to us back then it was everything Right.

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So be nicer to your kids.

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Yeah, all of you Totally.

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But anyways, first loves Paige, paige, craig oh yeah, that's what we're talking about.

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Is Paige?

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Yeah, I think she's moving on really quick and like another thing I'm bugged about and then I'm going to move on With Craig.

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She always says that she was a homebody and now she's going out with leather pants.

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Yeah Well, I know it's very different.

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It's very different.

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It's very like Kourtney Kardashian vibes, yeah, like the guy has tattoos.

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Now she's hard, because he's hard, yeah, and that's probably deep, yeah, it's weird, though the deep is weird.

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What are we talking?

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about what's deep, yeah, maybe.

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Why do you start dressing hard just because you're dating a guy?

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That Right, courtney totally started wearing chains.

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I'm like you never wore a change.

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I know I feel like when I met Ben, I dressed the same.

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Yeah, you know I feel like you dressed better when you met Kyle.

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Well, kyle has good style.

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Yeah, he's a good dresser.

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No, but like you with your ex, with the bangs?

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It wasn't, you were trying to dress like Cholo.

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Yeah, oh, no, oh no.

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Like I don't.

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I've seen people do that.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, like you were, Is Cholo not right, I don't know.

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I don't want to like, just maybe not a clip.

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Anything about the clip, I'm paranoid.

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It has to be like, so like, not controversial.

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Yeah, but you do change.

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I guess when you're dating someone you change.

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I was writing a book with my ex.

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He was going to be a doctor.

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I was like I'll be a doctor and I couldn't even pass like my food handlers part.

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I was like really good tacos and I still do, yeah, and you say tortilla.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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We have a lot of friends that date like or married to people of, like different authenticities.

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Is that the right?

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word.

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Yeah, and they, you would think like our friends.

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I would think they were Mexican and they're not.

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Oh Cause they kind of take on.

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Yeah, and like my mom, thinks she's Italian, but it's only by injection.

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Yeah, it's like you, it's like you take on that.

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Yeah, yeah, oh, totally the culture.

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Yeah, yeah, you do take on the culture.

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What would you be then?

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I'm like what's Ben's?

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culture.

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I have gotten cleaner, you know, yeah, you're way cleaner, way more like type A yeah, okay.

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And now sticking up for celebrities?

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Yes, because we got, you know, our trending video.

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She was mad because Paige's whole MO is like I don't care, I do what I want, I don't care what people think.

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But I said, when you have the whole internet and the whole world like critiquing and calling you like a horrible cheater, it's like normal to not want to share that and stick up for yourself.

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Totally, now that I you've lived in the, yeah, that's where she goes, she goes do you like identify with her?

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I'm like kind of you know it's kind of a lot of views at this point.

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It's getting weird yeah, it's like the, it's a lot of views.

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Yeah, every time I see that come across my screen like yelling at me.

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I'm like no, I swear, I'm a nice person.

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Yeah, I agree, I agree so the agree.

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So the Superbowl is this weekend.

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We actually watched it together Shocking.

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I'm going to be watching with Melissa next time.

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Yeah, I know Right.

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Yeah, we watched it together with our families.

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There's actually a really nice night.

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Um, like it was calm and fun.

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But Taylor Swift there's a lot of talk about.

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I think it went away now that the Eagles won, but I remembered what I was going to tell you Earlier in the day.

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They were, and it's on Instagram.

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It could have been AI or whatever, I don't know, but they were putting like wood up at Amazon headquarters in Philadelphia and the caption was proof that Eagles are going to win the Super Bowl because they're already protecting, like Amazon in Philly for when they win.

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And it was weird when they won, they like took over the streets in Philly for when they win.

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And it was weird when they won, they like took over the streets in Philly, like in a bad way, looting, yes, because they won supposedly on Instagram, but there's like them all on the freeway and it was like who?

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Who vandalizes your own town when you win the Super Bowl?

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Yeah, shouldn't you be like celebrating?

00:13:39.548 --> 00:13:41.115
Yeah, but I think maybe they got too crazy.

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Yeah, things got like yeah in college.

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Yeah, I'm like when breaking windows yeah remember when you wore the corset I do.

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Have we talked about?

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that on?

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No, I don't think so.

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Tisha went through a phase where she thought she was sex in the city Carrie I think every girl went through that phase.

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I never wore yeah.

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Melissa did too.

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I never wore my bra still doing it.

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Look how great Melissa is so cute.

00:14:01.342 --> 00:14:04.990
But the cutest person, tisha, went to the bar with her bra outside of her shirt.

00:14:04.990 --> 00:14:05.971
I know.

00:14:07.033 --> 00:14:14.707
Remember that I know, and people were like your bra is outside and I was like it's the style and it wasn't Like I don't live in New York and I'm not Carrie.

00:14:14.707 --> 00:14:16.625
It was at Santisi Brothers.

00:14:16.625 --> 00:14:21.625
Yeah, it was at Walgreens.

00:14:21.625 --> 00:14:27.743
No, it was in this, like this restaurant bar.

00:14:27.763 --> 00:14:28.224
I used to work at.

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Yeah, not the vibe it's like not in Scottsdale, like that's only be more normal.

00:14:30.450 --> 00:14:33.363
No, yeah, it's in like Phoenix, it was like west side.

00:14:33.543 --> 00:14:35.870
Yeah, like this little bar sports bar.

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She's wearing her bra outside of her shirt.

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I had such problems.

00:14:39.985 --> 00:14:44.662
I know, but no, and then I wore, um, I remember one time on, remember the trench coat.

00:14:44.662 --> 00:14:47.128
Well, yeah, I was just say I remember on New Year's.

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This is horrible.

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My kids can never, ever my daughter especially.

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I hope she never does this.

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I wore underwear with a fur coat, like to New Year's Eve, weren't they like clear?

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It was lace, yeah, but like you know, the boy short, did you?

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have it like open.

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It was the boy short, you were being Britney.

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Britney did that I had.

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I was whacked I think it's kind of cool.

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I wore boy short underwear lace, white, pink and a pink bra that matched Just that, just underwear, just fully underwear.

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And then I wore a fur coat over, because.

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And then I wore a fur coat.

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Over what color was the fur?

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It was like white and gray, I think I got it at like Burlington Coat Factory.

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It was, like you know, a big splurge for me at that time.

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I think it's actually kind of a cute outfit, yeah, and I had boots.

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I remember it to this day, did you?

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No, but I remember we were on a party bus.

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I was dancing Like the time, so I wasn't.

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Who was your boyfriend?

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Was she I was?

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Oh, really, no, I think it was after that, actually, but I think we still went with them.

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Oh, I don't remember, do?

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you think we talk about this a lot.

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Tisha and I both had a wild stage.

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Do you think now that I'm raising my kids, I'm like I would prefer they don't have that wild stage, but do you think that that's important to go through that Like in order to get?

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Because, whoever I was just talking to, they're dating like a nice guy and they weren't attracted to the nice guy?

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It's on the phone with somebody.

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Is it an adult or a kid?

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I feel like it had to have been a kid maybe, because I feel like no one we know is dating.

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Yeah, but I was like you don't like the nice guy until you get screwed over by the wrong guy.

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Mm-hmm, you know, like my, but some girls do.

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They marry the bad guy.

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No, they like the nice guy right away.

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Who Like Riley?

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Riley, yeah.

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Do you know?

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It wasn't like yeah, you're right, I don't know.

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You know what I mean.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know Some, yeah.

00:16:43.615 --> 00:16:47.787
I'm sure some of my cousin Riley met her boyfriend freshman year of high school.

00:16:47.787 --> 00:16:50.123
He was a junior and they did it for seven years.

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They waited till they were married and they just recently got married and they both went away to college.

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I tell people all the time the reason they made it is because they didn't consume each other Like they both got to live their own life and stay together.

00:17:03.361 --> 00:17:03.996
They always trusted each other.

00:17:03.923 --> 00:17:10.936
Yeah, they like got to go do healthy, yeah, whereas like sometimes in high school, what I'm seeing now that I'm like back around that age group, some people date and it's consuming.

00:17:10.936 --> 00:17:15.923
They're not allowed to go out with their friends, they're not allowed to do their own thing and I don't think relationships work with that.

00:17:15.923 --> 00:17:17.226
But yeah, I don't know.

00:17:17.226 --> 00:17:22.221
Or like Casey, yeah, no, but she had others before.

00:17:22.221 --> 00:17:23.864
Let's stop saying everyone's name, would you?

00:17:23.884 --> 00:17:27.161
Oh, my gosh, yeah, gosh, melissa, we can bleep the names out.

00:17:27.161 --> 00:17:29.215
Well, we're not going to edit it, let's be real.

00:17:29.336 --> 00:17:33.398
Yeah, Okay, but I don my cousin.

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We went to Vegas this weekend and my cousin, who lives in North Carolina, was there and his daughter is now 21 and 22, 23, and we were talking about raising kids and he was being really awesome with Kyle and I and he's like it gets hard, but they're going to be better than you think.

00:17:48.228 --> 00:17:55.692
And him and his wife he was the more strict one and his wife, my cousin, is more laid back and I feel like her and I raise our kids very similar.

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They got really good grades, they were really good, but we would go to um, New Jersey, We'd go to the shore house in the summers which we still do and like before their kids were 21, they'd give them like the alcohol popsicle.

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Yeah, you know, and I remember Kyle, my husband, he's by the book and he's like they're not 21 and they're having the alcohol popsicle.

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And I was like Kyle, they're not our kids, but now that it's been years, they were young.

00:18:20.663 --> 00:18:22.261
They were like way younger.

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Now that it's been years, they're not really that into drinking.

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So I'm like, did the alcohol popsicle like help make it less forbidden?

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So are you going to let your kids drink right now?

00:18:30.741 --> 00:18:33.680
No, no, I'm just kidding, I'm all no gosh.

00:18:33.880 --> 00:18:35.644
But did your parents ever let you have a sip?

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I feel like they did.

00:18:37.386 --> 00:18:38.269
Yeah, mine did.

00:18:38.269 --> 00:18:41.555
It wasn't like forbidden, yeah, but I still feel like but.

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I didn't have the parties where everybody could come drink at my house and go in the bedrooms, yeah, like you did.

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No, I didn't.

00:18:46.185 --> 00:18:51.240
Yeah deep, no gosh, no, no, yeah, yeah, no, I don't know.

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I, I don't know.

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Well, I think there's something to if you don't go wild, I don't know.

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I feel like, because I had those stages of like going away for spring break, like we went to Lake Havasu, that was a horrible idea.

00:19:04.406 --> 00:19:09.164
We went to Vegas we were talking about it this weekend because I almost got taken at a hotel.

00:19:09.164 --> 00:19:12.757
I had to call Kyle and these five guys were chasing like on me, hiding.

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It was a whole thing and this is the second time we've had an incident in Vegas.

00:19:16.538 --> 00:19:24.323
But I remember once I went to Vegas for my 21st birthday and we a bunch of girls, like one time we went to Vegas.

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All the time it was very unsafe, very unsafe yeah.

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And we were not in the right frame of mind Like we would hang out with all different people.

00:19:30.686 --> 00:19:33.508
We went to Lake Havasu for spring break and we didn't have a boat.

00:19:33.969 --> 00:19:36.730
Neither did we, and we just got on a random boat, random people's boats.

00:19:37.109 --> 00:19:38.770
Like why would we go there without a boat?

00:19:38.770 --> 00:19:40.412
It's so dumb Like they could kill us.

00:19:40.412 --> 00:19:41.992
Yeah, I know, and we were on boats all day.

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I know Like it's horrible.

00:19:43.574 --> 00:19:44.574
I know, and you were wearing your underwear.

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I feel like times are different, exactly With a trench coat, and they don't stick in water.

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Just putting it out there PSA, psa, for all the kids.

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They don't stick in water.

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Wait, so you jumped in the thing and then whoop, yeah, megan and I, what'd you do?

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Did someone throw you your bathing suit?

00:20:08.019 --> 00:20:09.662
No, they were selling pasties out there.

00:20:09.662 --> 00:20:12.241
There's out there where they tie up the boats and everyone's tied up.

00:20:12.241 --> 00:20:12.983
Melissa's not.

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She's probably done it.

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Nodding, she's probably done it, see and then it was like oh, pasties, and it was.

00:20:19.750 --> 00:20:21.199
So you just sticked him on and took off your top, so we just did pasties.

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And then it was like, oh, we're swimming.

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And then it was like, where's the pasties?

00:20:23.367 --> 00:20:26.372
The pasties are floating in the water, it's just like.

00:20:26.756 --> 00:20:27.317
But do you?

00:20:27.317 --> 00:20:32.390
Yeah, so I don't know, because I feel like I got, I sewed my oats, or what is it called.

00:20:32.494 --> 00:20:33.778
Yeah, like sewed your wild oats.

00:20:33.778 --> 00:20:35.580
Yeah, like Kyle and I don't think you need to do that.

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I think it's based on.

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I could watch a movie every Friday and Saturday night at home with him and be happy.

00:20:39.788 --> 00:20:41.612
Yeah, like I don't have any will.

00:20:41.753 --> 00:20:52.479
Yeah For like the wildlife, yeah, almost sometimes where I'm like kind of annoyed, like I wish I, but we do, we like to get a party bus.

00:20:52.479 --> 00:20:54.660
Yeah, I think you can be happy without it.

00:20:56.121 --> 00:20:59.603
If, kennedy, if any of your kids were caught drinking in high school, would you lose it?

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Yes, really yes, you wouldn't.

00:21:02.403 --> 00:21:02.964
I don't know.

00:21:02.964 --> 00:21:09.688
Like I was a good kid and we remember we drank Boone's Farm once and we thought we were drunk and I think we were all faking it.

00:21:09.688 --> 00:21:12.328
Oh yeah, because like I don't think you get, but we did, and that's really bad.

00:21:12.328 --> 00:21:13.269
I don't know, I guess we'll see.

00:21:20.674 --> 00:21:26.762
Yeah, I feel like college more was where I started Like to drink regularly.

00:21:27.015 --> 00:21:29.022
Yeah, I didn't drink regularly in high school, but that's what I mean.

00:21:29.022 --> 00:21:44.159
Yeah, one night didn't like start a whole thing and I only drank because I was depressed, because I blew out my knee, gained some weight, felt left out, so then I started drinking to fit in and then my confidence went to crap.

00:21:44.159 --> 00:21:49.162
Yeah, like I was a freshman in college that didn't drink, that went to parties and all the guys like I felt like I got a lot of attention from that because I was different, like why didn't I want to drink?

00:21:49.162 --> 00:21:50.996
They were very intrigued and I had a boyfriend.

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So I think you have like a not needy vibe.

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Yeah, when you're like have a boyfriend, totally I didn't have to drink and I swear all the guys.

00:21:57.848 --> 00:22:01.617
Yeah, I feel like the guys were wanting me too in high school because I had, or in college because I had a boyfriend.

00:22:02.019 --> 00:22:08.439
I was like now now yes, so we break up and I'm like here it is, and then they're like nobody, I'm a hello.

00:22:08.439 --> 00:22:10.522
You know every line.

00:22:10.522 --> 00:22:12.145
No, I know.

00:22:12.145 --> 00:22:16.577
I thought when we broke up, I'm like this idiot now accepting applications and then there's no one.

00:22:16.719 --> 00:22:19.642
Oh, okay, you know, that's what I thought would happen to Paige?

00:22:19.981 --> 00:22:21.084
Yeah, the sorbo, and it didn't.

00:22:21.084 --> 00:22:22.444
She's locked up with the tattoo guy.

00:22:22.444 --> 00:22:25.509
I don't, I'm not into that guy though Something's weird.

00:22:26.009 --> 00:22:27.070
It's just like yeah.

00:22:38.174 --> 00:22:39.657
I mean different strokes for different folks, but looks good.

00:22:39.657 --> 00:22:40.058
Yeah, that's not new.

00:22:40.058 --> 00:22:41.000
Okay, moving on the super bowl being rigged.

00:22:41.000 --> 00:22:42.044
Do you think this is a real thing?

00:22:42.044 --> 00:22:43.226
Have you heard all this talk that?

00:22:43.246 --> 00:22:44.107
the, the refs, yeah, were paid.

00:22:44.107 --> 00:22:49.599
I think stuff is rigged, rigged, but I don't really care, or no, yeah, you know.

00:22:49.599 --> 00:22:52.465
Yeah, you just care about the planes, exactly.

00:22:52.646 --> 00:23:00.903
Yeah, if the planes stay in the air, that's all I care about we were talking about it on the way here, because we try to kind of outline what we're talking about, but I wasn't very good at it today, but we did talk about it.

00:23:00.903 --> 00:23:03.502
It was pretty cool how God was glorified so much in the Super Bowl.

00:23:03.502 --> 00:23:23.536
I did like that and I do feel like lately I feel like before even watching Maddie and her friends like we have a really close church to us called CCV CV, christ Church of the Valley and everybody in our like little pocket goes there, like a lot in North Peoria go there, and it's like, it's weird, it's like a cool thing, it's like it's cool to go?

00:23:23.635 --> 00:23:25.762
Yeah, because I grew up going to youth group and it wasn't cool.

00:23:25.942 --> 00:23:27.576
Oh no, ken wants to stay there all night.

00:23:27.635 --> 00:23:33.284
I'm like get home, yeah, 830 at night, hudson doesn't want to go to town because she wants to go to church, right, which is really cool.

00:23:33.284 --> 00:23:35.186
I feel like is God trending?

00:23:35.186 --> 00:23:37.108
Yeah, I feel like it is.

00:23:37.108 --> 00:23:45.501
Yeah, it's weird, it's like things went so south that I feel like we're trending the other way, turning back, yeah, and we're going back to like it's good to be good, totally.

00:23:45.643 --> 00:23:46.724
It is good to be good For real.

00:23:46.724 --> 00:23:47.827
Yeah, it's weird.

00:23:47.827 --> 00:23:49.761
I feel like I've always felt like that.

00:23:49.761 --> 00:24:01.857
But, yeah, had a trench coat and pink underwear on.

00:24:01.857 --> 00:24:02.780
No, was it good to be good then In adult life?

00:24:02.780 --> 00:24:05.548
I mean, you know, yeah, I've always been a Christian, like I always try to tell my kids like it's cool to be good.

00:24:05.548 --> 00:24:09.938
But you know, now I feel like they're seeing that Like all the like it's popular to have a Bible verse in your Instagram bio.

00:24:10.137 --> 00:24:10.719
Yeah, you know.

00:24:11.619 --> 00:24:11.980
Yeah.

00:24:12.441 --> 00:24:19.270
It's kind of weird, though, because people talk so much about this generation this generation, yeah, and I feel like this generation's way better than we were.

00:24:19.535 --> 00:24:21.079
Well, they talked about it at church.

00:24:21.079 --> 00:24:22.444
On did you go this weekend?

00:24:22.515 --> 00:24:23.921
No, thank you for rubbing it in my face.

00:24:23.954 --> 00:24:24.355
We went.

00:24:24.355 --> 00:24:38.507
I'm all some of us go to church and some of us don't no, I was in Vegas yeah, we haven't been for a few weeks and so we went and it had all the junior high kids in the front and during the worship they were just like going crazy.

00:24:38.507 --> 00:24:46.737
And then when the pastor got up, he talked about the people say like the kids are the future of the church, and he's like no, you're not the future, you're the present.

00:24:46.737 --> 00:24:51.797
Like we could learn from you how to worship, we could learn from you how to celebrate God and all that stuff.

00:24:51.797 --> 00:24:52.376
It was really cool.

00:24:52.416 --> 00:25:03.200
But they interviewed um, a football player from the Chiefs on Saturday because it was I think it was ahead of the game, trying to like tie it in, and it was Swayze Bozeman.

00:25:03.200 --> 00:25:03.801
Have you heard of him?

00:25:03.801 --> 00:25:05.306
So I hadn't heard of him either.

00:25:05.306 --> 00:25:08.118
And he talked about his journey.

00:25:08.118 --> 00:25:19.655
He is like a very vocal Christian and uses his platform to talk about Jesus and he they interviewed him at church and it was really cool because he talked about um.

00:25:19.655 --> 00:25:37.405
After high school he had no offers and he just walked on as a practice, just got on the practice team of the chiefs and then, yes, and then he got um promoted or whatever put in and now he's playing in the super bowl.

00:25:37.868 --> 00:25:42.787
But they talked about his story and because he wasn't like the star, you know, he didn't get drafted, which was his dream.

00:25:42.787 --> 00:25:55.682
So, anyways, they were interviewing him and they said, like what, where have you I'm probably gonna get it wrong allegedly no, yeah, but like people who saw church, no, but they talked about like, how has your faith?

00:25:55.682 --> 00:26:02.058
Like, how has not getting what you wanted right out the gate been like the best thing for you?

00:26:02.058 --> 00:26:02.701
I love that.

00:26:02.701 --> 00:26:03.362
It was so good.

00:26:03.362 --> 00:26:17.808
And he talked about yes, and he said you know, my plan was to get drafted, yeah, right out of high school, and he's like, and when that didn't happen, he was like, or college maybe, and yeah, and was like, when that didn't happen, I was able to meet.

00:26:19.675 --> 00:26:38.787
He went somewhere, to college maybe, and then he met all these people and like, he's got to see so many people come to Jesus and he has all these experiences of like, faith, faith, yeah, showing God, seeing God and seeing God, and all those experiences that he never would have had if he got drafted.

00:26:38.787 --> 00:26:44.836
And he's like that is way more important to me than and like God put him on that path and it was just so good.

00:26:44.836 --> 00:26:48.765
How, like not getting what you want is actually the best thing.

00:26:48.765 --> 00:26:50.868
It was so good, that is so good.

00:26:50.868 --> 00:27:04.900
Anyways, it was just really cool and how, through his story and he talked about how he's had like so many injuries and all this stuff and how God just used his whole story and then now he's playing in the Super Bowl, now he's getting the attention, and it was just really cool.

00:27:05.576 --> 00:27:12.461
I love that because sometimes I think some of my best stories are when I didn't get what I wanted Totally, and it wasn't in my time, it was in his.

00:27:12.461 --> 00:27:13.684
But it's so hard.

00:27:13.684 --> 00:27:15.883
You learn so much about yourself through your adversities.

00:27:15.883 --> 00:27:16.676
But it's so hard.

00:27:16.676 --> 00:27:24.205
You learn so much about yourself through your adversities and we were talking about this in the car actually, like how, when you work through things as an adult even it's it's natural I feel like as an adult, we have more control and we talk about this all the time.

00:27:24.205 --> 00:27:32.900
You and I are both kind of controlling one more than others, but, um, it's hard to like remember that sometimes, when things don't go your way, it's actually.

00:27:32.900 --> 00:27:34.723
We talked about this on the podcast recently.

00:27:34.723 --> 00:27:35.905
Yeah, I was listening to the detour.

00:27:35.905 --> 00:27:40.674
The detour takes you where you want it and like sometimes we forget and we forget with our kids.

00:27:40.674 --> 00:27:46.150
Like when we see our kids struggle, that detour is actually going to be something that could be a part of their testimony later.

00:27:46.832 --> 00:28:03.423
Like as a parent, if you saw your kid whose dream was to get drafted and they did it, you'd be devastated, not like this is a great opportunity to know Jesus, but if we had that attitude it'd be like so life-changing you know, yeah, We've been talking in real life because we talk a lot.

00:28:03.564 --> 00:28:06.298
It's weird, but we are going to nationals this week.

00:28:06.298 --> 00:28:12.198
I'm just telling you what's going on in my life and I speaking of learning from the younger generations.

00:28:12.198 --> 00:28:13.540
A coach that coaches with me.

00:28:13.540 --> 00:28:23.219
So there's two varsity coaches and a JV coach and two freshmen coaches, and everybody's a Christian, which is pretty cool for us to get to work together and have the same values, and we're at a public school.

00:28:23.219 --> 00:28:29.017
Don't fire us for this, but the younger one, Marky um, who coaches with me, she's a assistant coach.

00:28:29.017 --> 00:28:33.864
She's like 25, 26 and I'm 43.

00:28:33.864 --> 00:28:35.506
So that's quite.

00:28:35.866 --> 00:28:39.596
You know, almost 20 year difference and I'm like pretty strong in my faith.

00:28:39.938 --> 00:28:40.982
I don't feel like I've been.

00:28:40.982 --> 00:28:42.189
You've known me forever.

00:28:42.189 --> 00:28:49.067
I don't waver very easily, but this whole journey has been such a lesson for me, like she pushes me on my faith so much.

00:28:49.067 --> 00:29:00.140
And again, like you said, the future generation she's way younger than me, has way less experiences, so-and-so but like she's challenging my faith so much.

00:29:00.140 --> 00:29:02.769
It's crazy that I never thought like a coaching position would be so spiritual for me.

00:29:02.769 --> 00:29:13.046
Right, but I've said I don't know if I've told this story on here, but we've talked about it Markie coaches fully with God, is the center and like, in a way, in a public school that it's like like we joked.

00:29:13.046 --> 00:29:20.688
This week we had a showcase and all the teams got together and prayed before and the whole whole rest of the night Markie and I were like we loved coaching at Liberty.

00:29:20.768 --> 00:29:21.368
It's been a good run.

00:29:21.368 --> 00:29:23.320
Yeah, it's been a good run.

00:29:23.474 --> 00:29:24.479
This is our exit.

00:29:24.479 --> 00:29:27.060
You know where we get fired and we did it his way.

00:29:27.060 --> 00:29:34.862
But Markie prays the whole time Like I watch her coach and I watch her team and she wasn't given maybe the most talented team from the get-go.

00:29:34.862 --> 00:29:39.047
There's a lot of talent but it's not like who they were in the beginning was who they were at the end.

00:29:39.047 --> 00:29:42.590
Right, and I'm trained to work, work, work, hustle, hustle.

00:29:42.590 --> 00:29:47.406
Never give up like the traditional way of doing things, like kind of like our parents.

00:29:47.406 --> 00:29:51.565
You know, in the factory, in the farm, like you have to battle for it.

00:29:51.674 --> 00:29:54.258
You can't miss a day of work, you can't enjoy a vacation.

00:29:54.258 --> 00:30:07.287
Like that's kind of Kyle and I's mentality Right, and Marky's in this next generation, and she's actually teaching us to like be different, like you don't have to go about it that way, but anyways, through her faith, she just praise and praise and they win.

00:30:07.287 --> 00:30:08.416
They win like everything.

00:30:08.416 --> 00:30:18.067
Yeah, it's crazy, but it's not coaching in the way that we've been coached or that I believe a champion coaches it, but like she does it because he's at the center.

00:30:18.067 --> 00:30:27.205
So, as we're going into our nationals this week, I'm really trying to like keep God in the center and it's really weird for me because I feel like he's in the center of everything for me.

00:30:27.205 --> 00:30:34.923
But this area is so hard for me and I don't know if it's because the way I was taught it, it wasn't so we had faith.

00:30:34.923 --> 00:30:35.705
It wasn't so.

00:30:35.705 --> 00:30:36.989
We had faith Like our, our experiences.

00:30:36.989 --> 00:30:44.163
You know and I'm not going to get in trouble for saying anything about high school cheer but our coach was amazing and she was the best, best experience of our life.

00:30:44.163 --> 00:30:45.395
Yeah, and she.

00:30:45.395 --> 00:30:50.667
There was a faith behind it, but it wasn't like you know God's, it was like a faith.

00:30:50.667 --> 00:30:51.859
There was an undertone of it.

00:30:51.859 --> 00:30:58.818
Yes, you know it was very good for us in that way.

00:30:58.818 --> 00:30:59.401
But, like, this is different.

00:30:59.401 --> 00:31:05.000
It's crazy and I hope that you know she's teaching me to pray that they see him through this, that it's not about the wind, but the wind be, and I've prayed that before.

00:31:05.000 --> 00:31:08.616
Like God, show them, you, through this in all these different areas.

00:31:08.616 --> 00:31:12.727
But it's so weird that I'm having the hardest time like, trusting that he will.

00:31:13.336 --> 00:31:16.285
And you were with me, we were on a cheer trip and I talked to her the day of state.

00:31:16.285 --> 00:31:25.483
And, and you were with me, we were on a cheer trip and I talked to her the day of state and she said Crystal, today I decided he will.

00:31:25.483 --> 00:31:26.606
You heard her, yeah, and I was like okay, marky.

00:31:26.606 --> 00:31:28.613
Like it's sometimes like, wow, okay, yeah, she's like no, I've decided he's not not, will he, he will?

00:31:28.613 --> 00:31:28.712
Yeah.

00:31:28.712 --> 00:31:29.675
Hours later he did yeah, like.

00:31:29.675 --> 00:31:32.046
And it was David and Goliath who they were going against.00:31:32.046 --> 00:31:34.876


Yeah, and she did it, but she never questioned him.00:31:34.876 --> 00:31:41.526


Yeah, and I've done that in so many other areas of my life, like I've told people you know when you go to the grocery store, that door is going to open.00:31:41.526 --> 00:31:46.525


We don't take it slow you might, because you don't listen to Google Maps, but neither does Kyle.00:31:46.525 --> 00:31:50.425


But, like I, just you walk knowing that door is going to open, right.00:31:58.234 --> 00:31:58.939


But like why sometimes do?00:31:58.959 --> 00:32:00.104


just trust that his will be done.00:32:00.104 --> 00:32:01.490


Yeah, and like and when it doesn't work out, it is still working out.00:32:01.490 --> 00:32:02.013


Yeah, because he showed.00:32:02.013 --> 00:32:10.298


And, mark, he said you got to look at the past, and when I look at the past he's always showed up and even in the pivots or the detours, it was still his plan.00:32:10.298 --> 00:32:17.685


Yeah, but I think the world, especially with what we consume, especially me with all my Instagram garbage oh, I think sometimes it makes you question him.00:32:17.685 --> 00:32:18.126


Yeah.00:32:18.247 --> 00:32:19.488


That's what that guy said too.00:32:19.488 --> 00:32:29.296


So he said I forget the question they asked him and he said garbage in, garbage out.00:32:29.296 --> 00:32:32.821


He said I'm really like cognizant of what I put in my body, what I consume, like, what I watch, what I listen to, these music.00:32:32.821 --> 00:32:34.564


It was really interesting.00:32:34.564 --> 00:32:35.465


Garbage in garbage.00:32:35.465 --> 00:32:36.126


Yeah that's good.00:32:36.126 --> 00:32:36.968


It was so good.00:32:37.107 --> 00:32:38.730


Well, I did that when I did 75 Hard.00:32:38.730 --> 00:32:43.045


The first book I read, change your Paradigm, change your Life yeah, such a good book.00:32:43.045 --> 00:32:44.268


I read it twice.00:32:44.268 --> 00:32:54.684


I think I'm going to read it a third time, but it's very about the mind and we've talked about this, not the manifesting, but like what you believe, what you people around you, how much it affects you, right.00:32:54.684 --> 00:32:57.126


So I feel like I did a pretty good job of like cleaning that up.00:32:57.126 --> 00:32:59.209


I stopped watching reality TV as much, yeah.00:32:59.209 --> 00:33:05.227


I stopped like being on Instagram as much, yeah, and I was careful who I had conversations with what I put in, yeah.00:33:05.227 --> 00:33:06.961


And I felt so much better, yeah.00:33:06.961 --> 00:33:08.140


And now I'm back to the garbage.00:33:08.240 --> 00:33:09.736


Well, summer house is a secret.00:33:09.736 --> 00:33:19.957


My 16-year-old was when he said that I'm uh-huh, because the music nowadays is like, yeah, bad sZA, it's horrible all of it, it's garbage.00:33:19.977 --> 00:33:21.337


Speaking of the halftime show, was it good?00:33:21.499 --> 00:33:26.549


I thought it was okay, I just I think I'm getting old because I was like what's going on?00:33:26.549 --> 00:33:26.971


Yeah.00:33:27.010 --> 00:33:29.522


You know, yeah, when I was young I kissed a girl.00:33:29.522 --> 00:33:33.550


It was a cool song and my dad I remember that, yeah, and we would all sing it.00:33:33.550 --> 00:33:34.492


We didn't know what we were singing.00:33:34.492 --> 00:33:36.547


Yeah, and you know, you do kiss a lot of girls.00:33:36.686 --> 00:33:36.867


Yeah.00:33:41.463 --> 00:33:42.424


I mean a couple, but yeah, stop.00:33:42.424 --> 00:33:48.371


And I'm like now that song is pure, like it's not even bad, I know, but that one song you liked, the how Many Licks.00:33:49.011 --> 00:33:51.733


No, this is so dumb, stop it.00:33:51.733 --> 00:33:57.118


No, but I did listen to I don't know Too Short, if people remember Too Short.00:33:57.118 --> 00:33:58.487


That was her song Me and Felicia.00:33:58.487 --> 00:33:59.920


Yeah, yes, you love that garbage.00:33:59.920 --> 00:34:12.648


It was like Tina, tina the cleaner, but you weren't like picturing doing it when you were singing, were you no, but we were like Woo, she, woo, woo, no, but we like thought it was cool to know all the words and now when I I'm like that was disgusting yeah.00:34:12.688 --> 00:34:13.530


Like it's not okay.00:34:13.530 --> 00:34:16.690


Did you and your woo she woo boyfriend listen to that song?00:34:17.360 --> 00:34:22.184


Yeah, he listened to a lot of rap music, so I do feel like that's remember how we said people become.00:34:22.184 --> 00:34:22.945


I was very like.00:34:22.945 --> 00:34:24.226


You know, I'm like a thug.00:34:24.226 --> 00:34:25.429


Yeah, I did.00:34:25.429 --> 00:34:27.771


I listen to like rap all the time Really.00:34:27.771 --> 00:34:29.572


Yeah, totally.00:34:30.273 --> 00:34:30.914


That's different.00:34:30.914 --> 00:34:31.534


Yeah, it is.00:34:31.534 --> 00:34:33.297


Yeah, anyways, the detours.00:34:33.297 --> 00:34:36.489


There was something else we were going to talk about with that the faith.00:34:36.489 --> 00:34:38.286


So we're going to nationals this week.00:34:38.286 --> 00:34:50.583


I'm going to pray about it, I'm going to see what you know?00:34:50.583 --> 00:34:56.668


You don't want to talk about this story, but can you tell that you made your son do something and now he's liking it, please?00:34:57.009 --> 00:34:58.639


Oh yeah, that happens all the time.00:34:58.639 --> 00:34:59.961


Yeah, tell the story please.00:34:59.961 --> 00:35:02.045


Oh yeah, he didn't want to do track.00:35:02.865 --> 00:35:04.268


Um, why did you want him to Cause?00:35:04.268 --> 00:35:05.048


I think it's relatable.00:35:05.048 --> 00:35:06.371


He was home doing what?00:35:07.050 --> 00:35:12.407


Well, so he goes hard in football season and he's doing great and he like loves it.00:35:12.407 --> 00:35:23.326


And then when football season's over, there's a lot of like and he'll work out, go to the gym with Ben, but that's like for one hour In football season especially at our school.00:35:23.547 --> 00:35:25.893


They're state champions, so they're 7-7.00:35:31.900 --> 00:35:32.884


They're there seven to seven every single day.00:35:32.884 --> 00:35:34.269


They're that disciplined, gets home at eight o'clock yeah it's.00:35:34.269 --> 00:35:35.835


And so I noticed like even during that period his grades were good.00:35:35.835 --> 00:35:36.559


He had no missing assignments.00:35:36.559 --> 00:35:43.847


So then football ends and then he's coming home and then he's like watching his phone and he's playing video games, and then he's grouchy.00:35:43.847 --> 00:35:51.094


And so we were like, okay, you're gonna do track, because a lot of the football players do track, especially for his position to get faster is beneficial.00:35:51.094 --> 00:35:53.943


And we were like, why are we gonna pay for a trainer?00:35:53.943 --> 00:35:55.206


Because he was like well, can I get a trainer?00:35:55.206 --> 00:35:56.900


I'm like, well, the track is free.00:35:56.900 --> 00:35:58.905


Yeah, let's do the free sport.00:35:58.905 --> 00:36:01.532


Yeah, and not mom and dad paying a million dollar trainer.00:36:01.532 --> 00:36:02.621


Why do you think he didn't want to?00:36:02.621 --> 00:36:06.971


I think because he didn't know what to expect.00:36:06.971 --> 00:36:07.932


I think that's natural.00:36:07.932 --> 00:36:14.811


You're scared and nervous and I mean I think a lot of people don't want to do.00:36:14.811 --> 00:36:15.923


I don't want to go to the gym.00:36:16.164 --> 00:36:19.646


You know when you're just kind of like I don't want to do that you know, and I don't think he knew what to expect.00:36:19.646 --> 00:36:23.284


He didn't really know anybody specifically that he was close with doing it.00:36:23.284 --> 00:36:30.996


So he was kind of just like so we made him go to the meeting and he's like, yeah, I just can't see myself, um, you know, running track.00:36:30.996 --> 00:36:33.181


I'm like, oh well, I can see you very clearly.00:36:33.181 --> 00:36:34.503


I'm all here.00:36:34.503 --> 00:36:35.686


Here's some glass cleaner.00:36:35.686 --> 00:36:39.661


Clean those glasses You're going, you know like that's what he said.00:36:39.702 --> 00:36:41.847


Yeah, yeah, I can't see myself.00:36:41.867 --> 00:36:43.992


I'm like oh, I see it clear as day, you know.00:36:43.992 --> 00:36:48.994


I'm like like my eyes are wide open, I see it and it's glorious.00:36:48.994 --> 00:36:50.856


So, yeah, we made him do it.00:36:50.856 --> 00:36:51.637


He wasn't happy.00:36:51.637 --> 00:36:52.818


So the first day, what did he think?00:36:52.878 --> 00:36:56.914


Oh, the first day comes home and he's like oh, and we make him do a lot of things, we made him do wrestling.00:36:56.914 --> 00:36:58.581


We're just like that, those parents.00:36:58.581 --> 00:37:04.108


And so he comes home the first day and I pick him up and he's like, and I'm like, oh, hey, honey, I was track, you know.00:37:04.108 --> 00:37:07.072


And he's like, you know, like gr was track, you know, and he's like, you know, like grouch.00:37:07.072 --> 00:37:07.893


I'm like, oh, okay.00:37:07.893 --> 00:37:10.838


So he's like, I don't know, I didn't like it.00:37:10.918 --> 00:37:11.759


And then Ben comes home.00:37:11.759 --> 00:37:14.264


Ben's asking him the same thing I didn't like it.00:37:14.264 --> 00:37:17.152


And then Ben's like oh, did you like it better than?00:37:17.152 --> 00:37:20.289


But it was better than wrestling, right, like, cause he didn't like wrestling, we made him do it.00:37:20.289 --> 00:37:30.527


And he's like oh, you know, but, and he didn't like it better than wrestling, I think.00:37:30.527 --> 00:37:42.070


And then I just told him, I said, look, I said we love you, we're not trying to ruin your life, we just think that this would be really good and instead of looking at it as track and doing a sport you don't want to do.00:37:42.070 --> 00:37:43.722


Why don't you look at it as football training?00:37:43.722 --> 00:37:45.423


Because he loves training for football, right?00:37:45.423 --> 00:37:52.135


So I'm like, look at it as an opportunity to make you better for football, and then I do feel like on the second day.00:37:52.295 --> 00:37:59.244


So the second day I picked him up and he's all chipper talking to someone as I pick him up and he's like, yeah, I want to race today.00:37:59.244 --> 00:38:03.389


I'm like you know, and he was all happy, yeah, so he's been in a good mood ever since.00:38:03.710 --> 00:38:08.516


It's don't make this a clip, but yeah, it's crazy though, those experiences, like we all are like that.00:38:08.516 --> 00:38:10.219


Yeah, like I don't want to do things all the time.00:38:10.239 --> 00:38:14.728


Yeah, I'm glad I didn't listen to him, because he was like in tears about making us making him do it.00:38:14.728 --> 00:38:16.840


He was so mad, yeah and our girls.00:38:16.900 --> 00:38:18.021


Even they had cheer tryouts.00:38:18.021 --> 00:38:19.023


They have cheer tryouts right now.00:38:19.023 --> 00:38:21.726


It's really adding a lot to my mornings, though.00:38:21.726 --> 00:38:24.010


I have two kids that are supposed to be at school at the same time.00:38:24.010 --> 00:38:25.271


I'm like a chicken with my head cut off.00:38:25.291 --> 00:38:25.672


Well, and Ken's.00:38:25.672 --> 00:38:26.934


Like me, she's not a morning person.00:38:26.934 --> 00:38:35.659


I'm going to be like Ben, make her coffee Like she's got to do her cities and her coffee Cities, cities, you know, oh, she woo, yeah, but no, she is not a morning person.00:38:35.659 --> 00:38:36.684


Will you explain what?00:38:36.724 --> 00:38:45.811


cities is We've talked cities.00:38:45.811 --> 00:38:48.617


No, to you, it's normal, it's not normal to us.00:38:48.617 --> 00:38:48.896


No, yeah.00:38:49.039 --> 00:38:50.324


Sit with an I-E-S.00:38:50.324 --> 00:38:51.469


Melissa doesn't know.00:38:51.469 --> 00:38:53.887


We add an I-E-S to everything in my house Because that's cool.00:38:53.887 --> 00:38:56.161


Yeah, dewey's is doing it, you know?00:38:56.161 --> 00:38:57.943


Yeah, uh-huh.00:38:57.943 --> 00:39:07.791


Yeah, homies bag, I'm not into that, I'm not into the finger, um, anyways.00:39:07.791 --> 00:39:12.815


So she's getting a chuckle.00:39:12.815 --> 00:39:14.036


No cities.00:39:14.036 --> 00:39:21.320


What is cities?00:39:21.320 --> 00:39:21.661


Cities is.00:39:21.661 --> 00:39:22.606


My mornings consist of coffees and cities.00:39:22.606 --> 00:39:24.713


I sit, I read my, I read my devotional, I scroll Instagram, I drink my coffee.00:39:24.713 --> 00:39:25.956


I do not like to be bothered.00:39:25.956 --> 00:39:28.880


I need my morning like routine of waking up.00:39:28.880 --> 00:39:30.726


So what does Ben do while you're doing cities?00:39:30.726 --> 00:39:32.429


He is making coffees.00:39:32.429 --> 00:39:33.713


He's waking kids up.00:39:33.713 --> 00:39:35.806


He's driving CJ to school, he's making breakfast.00:39:35.806 --> 00:39:37.840


I don't know what the hell he's doing, but I'm sitting.00:39:37.840 --> 00:39:42.902


No, Um, so I like to sit in the cause.00:39:42.902 --> 00:39:43.862


I'm just not a morning person.00:39:43.882 --> 00:39:46.384


He wakes up and he's, he wakes up and he's ready to conquer the day.00:39:46.523 --> 00:39:48.405


Yeah, that's just bad, yeah, so, anyways.00:39:48.405 --> 00:39:52.806


So Ken is like me, so waking her up for this morning is like so rough.00:39:52.806 --> 00:39:54.148


I dread it as I'm walking down there.00:39:54.148 --> 00:39:56.208


It's like the, you know, I'm like.00:39:56.208 --> 00:40:00.070


I'm like I'm marching to like I don't know, like my Hunger Games.00:40:00.070 --> 00:40:02.811


Oh, it's awful, she's like bleh.00:40:02.811 --> 00:40:10.275


I'm like, oh my God, and I'm like real quick about it, I like turn the sound machine off, turn the light on.00:40:10.275 --> 00:40:13.436


I try to get out of there without like her seeing me, and then she's like what?00:40:13.516 --> 00:40:16.057


And I'm oh, she's nasty.00:40:16.057 --> 00:40:17.617


But they both didn't want to try out for cheer.00:40:17.617 --> 00:40:24.304


They told us they were going to do basketball, which we all.00:40:24.304 --> 00:40:26.608


Okay, get your basketball, you know.00:40:26.608 --> 00:40:30.476


So we're at the Super Bowl at my house and they tell us cheer tryouts.00:40:30.476 --> 00:40:32.500


In the morning they do all-star cheer, yeah.00:40:32.500 --> 00:40:34.927


So when there's cheer at the school, why aren't we doing cheer at the school?00:40:34.927 --> 00:40:35.487


It's fun.00:40:35.487 --> 00:40:36.592


Yeah, go to the games.00:40:36.592 --> 00:40:45.668


It's not a lot of pressure, what they're used to.00:40:45.668 --> 00:40:49.291


So they're both to play and they have to miss like two practices a week.00:40:49.291 --> 00:40:51.032


Yeah, the coaches are like okay with that.00:40:51.032 --> 00:41:05.550


Yeah, so the night before we start dancing, with the idea that we're going to make them try out for cheer and they know we're going to make them means it's probably going to happen.00:41:05.550 --> 00:41:06.952


So we just going to go the first day.00:41:06.972 --> 00:41:18.028


And now, like Hudson's setting her alarm, all excited, oh, not at our house, yeah, but making them do what they don't want to do all of us, like our high school coach taught us, discipline is doing what you don't want to do.00:41:18.090 --> 00:41:26.451


When you don't want to do it, I'm going to tell Ben that when he's doing the laundry, this is discipline fingies might be a discipline for you, even though you don't want to do it.00:41:26.471 --> 00:41:26.990


Just try it.00:41:27.170 --> 00:41:34.036


I'm not doing it yeah, I'm not like in, I'm not even gonna say high school, because that's wrong, but you know did you do that in high school?00:41:34.036 --> 00:41:39.224


No, you did that with the trench coat on 100 I, I did the trench coat when I was like 21 and that's okay.00:41:39.224 --> 00:41:47.692


Well, I didn't do that, but no, but like I, just I'm like I'm married, I'm not getting fingies.00:41:47.692 --> 00:41:49.661


It's just like I don't know, but why?00:41:50.021 --> 00:41:51.865


because you're married does the fun stop?00:41:51.865 --> 00:41:54.552


It should be the most fun, it's like ouch.00:41:57.264 --> 00:41:59.028


It's like get the real thing going.00:41:59.028 --> 00:42:00.030


I don't want the finger.00:42:00.030 --> 00:42:01.353


It's like what's going on?00:42:01.353 --> 00:42:06.369


You know, I just know that if that hurts, how's the other thing going?00:42:06.369 --> 00:42:07.210


I know right.00:42:07.210 --> 00:42:09.835


No, I'm just like let's get to the point.00:42:09.835 --> 00:42:11.626


I'm not like all for the.00:42:11.626 --> 00:42:15.085


You know, like let's get it going.00:42:15.085 --> 00:42:17.768


I got things to do, people to see you know, yeah, no.00:42:17.940 --> 00:42:20.449


Crystal wants this experience you know it's like oh.00:42:21.019 --> 00:42:24.085


It's not like a four-course meal at your house, it is.00:42:24.085 --> 00:42:26.931


It's like you know, you got the dessert, you got the.00:42:26.931 --> 00:42:29.155


She's like Kyle wants to try the whipped cream.00:42:29.155 --> 00:42:30.003


I'm like what the?00:42:30.043 --> 00:42:31.469


hell is going on over there.00:42:32.001 --> 00:42:51.563


I don't try that, but I mean never say never, yeah, but like also to the women I'm like at a fast food restaurant, like let's go, you are still freaky Ben said you guys were crazy, this Freaky.00:42:51.583 --> 00:42:53.871


He said oh, and you call each other a bad girl, Weird.00:42:53.871 --> 00:42:55.315


They're over our house and they're saying you were a bad girl.00:42:55.315 --> 00:42:55.898


And I'm like what the heck?00:42:55.898 --> 00:42:56.559


Bad mommy, Mommy, yeah, bad mommy.00:42:56.559 --> 00:43:00.471


It's like be a bad girl, Don't be a bad mommy.00:43:00.471 --> 00:43:05.530


It's like an oxymoron, Like the word mommy makes me not want to spank someone.00:43:06.041 --> 00:43:06.922


I can't believe this.00:43:06.922 --> 00:43:09.829


Poor Like the word mommy makes me not want to spank someone.00:43:09.829 --> 00:43:10.791


I can't believe this.00:43:10.791 --> 00:43:12.373


Poor Ben Like his clients.00:43:12.373 --> 00:43:13.295


I hope no one listens.00:43:13.295 --> 00:43:14.297


It's awful, how embarrassing.00:43:14.297 --> 00:43:18.346


No, like, yeah, like he's like you're being a bad zombie.00:43:18.346 --> 00:43:19.829


So I call him a zaddy and then he called me a zombie.00:43:19.829 --> 00:43:21.072


Not everyone knows what that means either.00:43:21.072 --> 00:43:22.695


What the hell is a zombie?00:43:23.219 --> 00:43:24.222


What's a zombie and a zaddy?00:43:24.222 --> 00:43:25.063


Go ahead, tell your what is that?00:43:25.083 --> 00:43:25.585


no, they don't 100.00:43:25.585 --> 00:43:26.706


I didn't know, kyle didn't know.00:43:26.706 --> 00:43:30.554


Yeah, no, everyone knows, it's like a hot dad.00:43:30.554 --> 00:43:31.916


Why is it called a zaddy?00:43:31.916 --> 00:43:34.583


Because it's like a daddy, daddy, daddy.00:43:34.583 --> 00:43:37.231


That makes you go zam or damn.00:43:37.231 --> 00:43:38.414


Like it's like a hot dad?00:43:38.434 --> 00:43:39.315


I don't know either.00:43:39.315 --> 00:43:41.503


Yeah, daddy is like a hot dad.00:43:41.503 --> 00:43:44.088


Okay, so then you're a zombie, it's weird.00:43:44.590 --> 00:43:45.913


It's so weird, but no.00:43:45.913 --> 00:43:54.347


So yeah, sometimes if I say oh, oh, I'm being bad, like if he's irritated with me, he'll be like you're going to get a spanking later, you're being bad, you know.00:43:54.347 --> 00:43:55.641


Does he give you a spanking Kind?00:43:55.641 --> 00:43:58.063


Of sometimes I'm fine with a spanking.00:43:58.063 --> 00:44:02.802


As long as it's not a finger, I don't mind a spanking.00:44:02.802 --> 00:44:04.686


I don't mind an old fashioned spanking, you know.00:44:05.347 --> 00:44:08.373


My mom always my mom is still talking about how she missed the spanking.00:44:08.373 --> 00:44:10.061


My dad and I'm like what the?00:44:10.061 --> 00:44:10.963


Yeah, I don't mind the spanking.00:44:10.963 --> 00:44:13.751


Really, it's kind of like you know, you're a bad dummy, yeah.00:44:19.101 --> 00:44:20.045


My poor kids.00:44:20.045 --> 00:44:22.887


They're going to be like throw up if they ever hear this.00:44:22.887 --> 00:44:27.184


Yeah, because if we ever kiss they're always like gross.00:44:27.244 --> 00:44:28.706


And you don't do that very often.00:44:29.047 --> 00:44:30.228


Sometimes we do, but yeah.00:44:30.268 --> 00:44:30.510


Yeah.00:44:30.510 --> 00:44:38.304


Well, the lesson is just because you're married, don't be a bad zombie, yeah, or be a bad zombie, like you know.00:44:39.144 --> 00:44:40.206


Do you have whips and chains?00:44:40.206 --> 00:44:42.047


No gosh, I'm not into that, I'm not into that.00:44:42.047 --> 00:44:42.768


I'm not into that.00:44:42.768 --> 00:44:55.425


No, no, very wholesome, like, no, outside, like People or objects, very like natural body things.00:44:55.425 --> 00:44:57.447


Oh God, it's getting, yeah, it's getting Too much.00:44:57.447 --> 00:44:58.248


Cut it, cut that.00:44:58.248 --> 00:44:59.811


Grossies, grossies, yeah.00:45:00.472 --> 00:45:03.054


Vividies Picturies yeah.00:45:03.255 --> 00:45:03.835


All right, guys.00:45:03.835 --> 00:45:05.126


I feel like this is a good ending.00:45:07.880 --> 00:45:08.601


I'm going to throw up here soon.00:45:08.601 --> 00:45:09.443


I know we got to cut some of that.00:45:09.443 --> 00:45:10.244


No, we're not cutting anything.00:45:10.244 --> 00:45:11.527


Anyways, oh my God, thanks for listening.00:45:11.527 --> 00:45:14.634


We'll see you next week, be a zaddy, yeah, or a zombie.00:45:14.634 --> 00:45:21.181


Welcome to Jerking Around a podcast that makes you feel better about yourself, because we're a mess just like you.00:45:21.181 --> 00:45:23.222


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